Link Love : July

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So many awesome links this month—enjoy!

Pets interrupting at-home yoga sessions. The struggle is real.

♥ Elise's post on time spent creating vs. consuming is great, and goes right along with one of my personal mantras: "Start every day as a producer, not a consumer."

♥ An interview with Caroline of the blog Un-Fancy about her capsule wardrobe and process. I was just introduced to Un-Fancy this month (thanks to Kathleen) when I saw her pop up on Into Mind, a blog I already follow.

♥ Awesome! Emma Watson was appointed as a Goodwill Ambassador for UN Women, working for the Entity for Gender Equality and the Empowerment of Women. I love that lady.

How clutter affects your brain (and what you can do about it): "While clutter has been shown to negatively effect your performance, it is your perception of clutter that matters, not someone else’s. [...] You should seek to create spaces that make you feel at ease."

♥ A discussion about how the beauty industry uses the concept of "creating new needs" to sell the latest cream/product/serum/oil/lotion/etc. and encourages us to look at whether the product actually fulfills a need in our life before we make a purchase.

♥ Cup of Jo's series about parenting in other countries is always fascinating, but I particularly enjoyed this profile of an expat mom living in Berlin, Germany. It seems to me that the culture of many European countries supports parenting and family life in a much more comprehensive way than the U.S.A. does.  

♥ Accurate: What I Instagrammed vs. What Was Really Happening, Or My Entire Life is a Lie.

♥ This American Life is launching a new podcast! It's called Serial, and each individual podcast will be a part of a longer story, like the chapters of a book.

♥ Oh, for the love of Sir Patrick Stewart, this post from The Bloggess is great: Women who are ambivalent about women against women against feminism.

♥ Looking for some new reading suggestions? Here is The Millions' roundup of upcoming releases for the rest of 2014.

♥ A music video for the song Elysium from the band Bear's Den, with a powerful and tragic story behind it—the video ended up capturing a group of real life friends dealing with the aftermath of a friend being shot in a Seattle school shooting (be sure to click 'Read More').

♥ One of my favorite healthy living vloggers discusses Non-Toxic Cleaning {video}.

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July Podcast Loves:

Call Your Girlfriend, any episode. I mentioned CYG once before, and I'm still loving it. Smart ladies discussing both current events and pop-culture topics. Thumbs up.

After the Jump, Episode 80: Jealousy. Grace's solo episodes are my favorite. This time she talks about how we can use jealousy as a source of motivation.

Elise Gets Crafty, Episode 19: Keeping it Real with Cathy Zielske. It was interesting to hear two bloggers talk about about to stay authentic online, particularly when they often have to deal with negative comments.

July Rewind.

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July in Photos
I have all of two photos from July. SUPER LAME.
(But that falafel bowl in the first photo was deeelicious and totally worthy of a photo!)





5 Things that Happened in July

1. The craziness that happened while Mark was in Israel, which I summarized in this post. There's another untold part of story that I wish I could vent about, but a public blog is not the place to do it. However, if we know each other in real life, you will likely get an earful at some point—something for you to look forward to! ;)
2. My sister-in-law got engaged! The family knew it was coming, but my SIL was apparently totally shocked when her guy popped the question while they were on vacation in Colorado.
3. We attended a 1970s-themed block party hosted by Mark's family in Wisconsin. It was mostly enjoyable for the ridiculous people-watching since people were asked to dress up in all their hippie and disco glory.
4. Our cat Misfit had her second surgery to remove a tumor, and it went about as well as it could, given the shitty circumstances and limited options we have for her. She's all recovered and is doing fine, so we're trying to enjoy the time we have with her right now. Which mostly means spoiling her by letting her go lay outside on the front steps of our condo anytime she asks to go out (asking = sitting by the front door and staring at the door handle, crying repeatedly).
5. I bought a few new travel-related items for our upcoming family trip to Austria, Germany, and Switzerland, which I plan to share in a future blog post or video about traveling light and travel capsule wardrobes.

Read in July

Ready Player One by Earnest Cline: 3.5 stars. A really fun, easy read. It reminded me quite a bit of Mr. Penumbra's 24-Hour Bookstore, which I read in early 2013. I enjoyed Mr. Penumbra just a touch more because I'm a book girl and not a gamer, but both books had the same kind of nostalgia-mixed-with-modern-technology appeal. I think you'd really enjoy Ready Player One if you have a particular soft spot for '80s pop culture. This was one of the rare books that I successfully pushed onto Mark as soon as I was done, and he really enjoyed it as a 1980s-born video gamer.  However, from a literary standpoint, the writing was a little flat and lacking complexity in several spots and the plot/pacing was uneven.

Lexicon by Max Barry: I'm currently two-thirds of the way through this; I'm mostly enjoying it so far. It's a lot different than the kind of books I normally read though.

Favorite Song from July



What I'm Looking Forward to in August

Well, what I'm not looking forward to is Mark's return to Israel. Though Mark opted out of staying for the scheduled 3 months to complete the project in person, his company asked him last week to return for a few 2-week business trips as a compromise. As soon as the FAA ban on US flights to Israel was lifted last Wednesday, they bought him a ticket back and he leaves Friday morning. I'm not worried about his safety, as the company (and the country at large) has emergency procedures in place, but I'd rather he not have to go back at all. I'll be very glad when this phase of our life is over (which should be by early October), and I'll be very glad when the violence in the region eases because the civilian casualties inside Gaza are just tragic and deplorable (reports now say there have been over 1,100 Palestinians, 47 Israeli soldiers, and two Israeli civilians killed since July 8).

But let's try to look on the bright side, shall we? What I AM looking forward to is: 1. THE LIBRARY BOOK SALE! This is one of my favorite yearly events, and will surely result in a big ol' book haul. I really haven't bought more than 3 or 4 books so far this year, so I'm allowed to do a little damage at the book sale. 2. Tomato season with our CSA. Is there anything better than a garden-fresh tomato? 

Happy August, friends!

How I Make the Most of my CSA Vegetable Share

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RainbowChardOne of my favorite parts of summer is receiving a weekly box of veggies through a CSA share (CSA = Community Supported Agriculture), where you pay for a share of a farm's veggies at the beginning of the summer growing season and receive a weekly or bi-monthly box of produce through early or mid-fall. There are SO MANY advantages to CSAs—namely, supporting farmers directly, buying local food (which equals fresher and more environmentally-friendly food with lower transportation costs), paying the farmer up-front so that they can more accurately plan their crops (which I see as a benefit over farmers markets, though they are wonderful as well), and the adventure that comes with not always knowing exactly what will show up in your box each week. The first time we received celeriac, I had no idea what it was; it looked like a mandrake straight out of Harry Potter! It's been a fun and challenging experience for us each year.

Our current CSA is through King's Hill Farm in Mineral Point, Wisconsin. In the past, we've also used Angelic Organics in Caledonia, Illinois. We always purchase a half share, which in the past meant a full box delivered twice per month, but King's Hill Farm changed their half share to a smaller sized box that we receive weekly. The boxes work out to be $15 each and contain 5-6 items. While we do have to supplement these items with grocery store or farmers market visits for protein, bread, and other staples to complete our meals, I have found that the CSA items definitely span the whole week and often act as the core of our dinners.

Ages ago, I wrote a post on my old blog answering some basic questions about CSAs and how they work, and today I'd like to update that post with some of my favorite tips that have come out of five years of CSA membership. Many of these tips can also be applied to farmers market shopping, if that's more your jam.

OBTAIN A VEGETABLE-CENTRIC COOKBOOK
In our first year with Angelic Organics, they gave us a wonderful cookbook written by the farm's founder called Farmer John's Cookbook. I honestly reference this every single week—not necessarily for recipes but largely because the cookbook is divided by ingredient and contains proper storage instruction for each item. I particularly like this cookbook because it is specifically catered to our local area and the kinds of crops we get in CSA boxes, and helps when I get those "WTF is this?" vegetables. If you live in a region other than the Midwest, I encourage you to see if there might be a farm that has printed their own cookbook. Many CSAs email you a weekly newsletter with your box's contents and a few recipes, but I don't find them detailed enough to be useful. If you can't find a vegetable cookbook specific to your local region, something like Vegetable Literacy can be a great reference too.

STORE YOUR VEGETABLES PROPERLY
Proper storage makes a huge difference in how long vegetables stay fresh and crisp. For the first few years, I'd just throw bunches of kale or rainbow chard into the fridge, and within a day or two, it would look droopy, limp and sad. Not ideal. This year, as I mentioned above, I've been reading up on storage tips from the Farmer John's Cookbook (I'm sure this information exists online somewhere as well). Things like: damp vs. dry, bagged vs. unbagged, paper vs. plastic, and what drawer of the fridge. I've been so impressed with how much of a difference this has made. Granted, I'm going through damp paper towels and gallon sized ziplock bags like nobody's business, but my greens in particular are staying as fresh as the day we get them from the farm.

TAKE ADVANTAGE OF MEAL PLANNING (AND UTILIZE PINTEREST)
It's slightly harder to meal plan when you don't know what you're going to get in your CSA box until a few days before you receive it, but I still think planning is an important part of the process and doesn't take any more time than it does during non-CSA season. I pick up our CSA box on Friday afternoons, and my meal plans run from Tuesday (when I grocery shop) to the following Monday. So, during the weekend after we pick up a new box, we're typically finishing up the meal plan/produce from the previous box (and sometimes going out to eat, of course). I still follow the meal-planning process I wrote about here, but I base all meals around what comes in our CSA box. Most frequently I turn to Pinterest to pick recipes because I can just search by ingredient. Some favorites from the beginning of the CSA season have been: Carrot and Sunflower Seed Salad (we used pepitas instead), Curry Roasted Red Pepper and Eggplant Soup, Bread and Butter Pickles (because SO MANY CUCUMBERS), Kale Hemp and Flaxseed Oil Pesto (served over zucchini noodles with grilled chicken), Grilled Ginger Sesame Chicken Chopped Salad (added red pepper), Beet Burgers (soooo good; link from my old blog), and Scallion Pancakes. I typically keep eggs, cans of beans, and frozen chicken sausages/chicken breasts/ground beef on-hand to add protein to the veg/salad heavy meals, or we just end up eating two different salads side-by-side as a veggie centric meal. I'm very lucky Mark likes veggies and doesn't HAVE to have meat in every meal. He's just glad I do the planning and most of the cooking around here :)

WRITE OUT YOUR CURRENT CSA INVENTORY ON THE FRIDGE
I've long written our meal planning "menu" on a dry erase board on the fridge so we can pick what we feel like eating on any given weeknight, but I also list each CSA item as well. Often, the recipes we make don't use up all of what we have for a particular vegetable (or we'll receive something like 14 cucumbers), so I keep items on the list until they are completely gone. It keeps me from forgetting what we have, and helps when I meal plan for the following week so I can know what needs to be used up first. Much less is going to waste for us this way.

BE ADVENTUROUS
CSAs favor the bold eater. You will probably not love every vegetable you receive. It took me forever to find beet recipes that I liked, but persistence paid off. Sometimes you get a billion cucumbers (or tomatoes, or whatever) and quickly have to figure out how to pickle or can or preserve as to not let the bounty go to waste. Other times you'll get kohlrabi or celeriac or scapes and need to research what they even ARE. As a person who loves food, it's been a really fun experience to expand my horizons and get me to try new things in the kitchen (you can see some of my past CSA meals here; I need to get back in the habit of taking photos of what I cook so I can share more here!).

All-in-all, I'm a huge CSA fan. Every year I question whether I want to spend the money (since it is a big chunk up-front) but every year I remember how much fun we have with it and how healthy and good we feel eating all those veggies.

If you have any CSA-specific questions, please let me know!

Loving Lately : Summer 2014

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SUMMER-lovinglately-2014

My blog has been so boring lately. I KNOW. I don't make any apologies, because life happens sometimes, but I am working on writing more than the same three or four monthly posts all the time. Thank you for sticking around.

I'M LOVING THIS...

PURCHASE: A spiralizer! I'm generally opposed to single-use kitchen items, but after getting a sore arm from grating zucchini by hand on more than one occasion, I decided to buy this Paderno spiralizer with three blade options. I've made zucchini noodles on several occasions, which I love so much (even more than spaghetti noodles), and I have also made wide cucumber strands for cucumber salad and short carrot shreds that I added to stir-fry. It's awesome and totally worth it, especially since I want to stay away from pasta. Plus, it's nice to not have to boil water during the summer months. Note: The image here is from a recipe for Zucchini Pasta with Mint Pea Pesto on the blog Smitten Studio.

FONT: BD Paris, a sweet, hand-drawn slab serif font from DaFont. I particularly like the lowercase letters. And it's free!

MUSIC: YunaYuna is a singer-songwriter from Malaysia who is currently gaining popularity in the US. I adore the indie-pop sound on her latest album Nocturnal-- her silky voice and the great beats make it perfect summer music. My current girl-power anthem is her song Rescue: "But things were bad / She came up for air / She said a little prayer / She found herself / Yeah, she's got a light in her face / She don't need no rescue and she's okay. / Yeah, she's got life in her veins. / She don't need no rescue and she's okay. / No SOS needed; no rescuing, she's fine out there."

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DRINK: Julius Meinl coffee and espresso. I've always considered myself more of a tea person than a coffee person, but I think I've learned that I have just been drinking shitty coffee. It was our trip to Italy that introduced us to good coffee, but nothing I was finding in the US after we got home could compare (yes, I realize how pretentious that sounds and I accept it). We started visiting a local bakery up the street that serves Julius Meinl, a coffee manufacturer based out of Vienna, Austria, and it's is hands-down the closest thing to the coffee we had in Europe. If you can find Julius Meinl near you, I recommend it. I'll be in Vienna in September, and I'll have to give it a try in its home city :)

DOWNLOAD: Overcast app. Let's be real—the native iPhone podcast app is atrocious. It's hard to use and very finicky. I downloaded this brand new podcast app last week, which lets you listen or download any podcast you'd find on iTunes, create playlists, etc., and the UI is smooth and attractive. Two thumbs up. There also are some advanced features you can get in the paid version like auto volume control and "smart speed," which detects and reduces silences to speed up your listening.

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VIDEO: Hey USA! This is by far my favorite thing on the internet at this moment in time. YouTube funny ladies and real-life best friends Grace Helbig and Mamrie Hart are traveling around the USA and visiting cities and attractions at the suggestion of viewers. Um, hello dream job. I literally smile my way through each of the videos and I can't wait for the full episodes to be released at the end of the summer. Here is the trailer, and here's a link to all the episodes so far.

FOOD: Spicy Kale and Coconut Stir-fry. The highest compliment an online recipe can receive from me is when I feel compelled to make it more than once, and I've already made this one three times this month. It's tasty, versatile, relatively fast, and healthy. I mixed some precooked chicken at the end of cooking the last time we made it, which was delicious—even though it breaks my personal food rule of never eating chicken and eggs together in the same dish.

EVENT: Lena Dunham's book tour. I happened to be online when the tickets went on sale for the Chicago event, and once I saw that the ticket included a 2-hour talk with Lena and GIRLS producer Jenny Konner AND came with a signed copy of her upcoming book, I was alllllll over it. Good thing too; it sold out in a few hours. Cue total fangirling—I can't wait for October. I'm also jealous of anyone who gets to go to the Pasedena event with Miranda July because that's going to be amazing.

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Coffee Chat // July 14, 2014

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{Partial evidence of my emotional eating bender this past week.}

1. This past week was probably the most stressful week I've ever experienced. I gave a more specific play-by-play over on Twitter as Mark and I Skyped each day, but to summarize it here: Mark left for Israel last Sunday, July 6th, for what was supposed to be a three-month work project. On July 8th, Israel launched Operation Protective Edge, a military response to deal with the increasing conflict between Gaza and Israel stemming from the kidnapping and murder of three Israeli teenagers back in June. I'd been aware of the kidnappings prior to Mark's departure, and—obviously—the ongoing tension between Israel and Palestine, but there was nothing that caused us to truly worry about Mark's trip. He'd spent 10 days there in May, and had a perfectly normal time—working, going to the beach, dining at restaurants, visiting Jerusalem. But this time, within 12 hours of his arrival, tensions were escalating rapidly and the country began dealing with frequent rocket launches, air warning sirens, and visits to the safety bunkers found in every building. Did I mention that Mark was living and working within eight miles of Gaza? On July 9th, his company relocated him and his team to a town a bit further northeast away from Gaza, and they were instructed to work out of their hotel and not go much farther than the restaurants next door. They also began to discuss evacuation plans, including a potential boat route through the Mediterranean Sea to Cyprus if there was an issue getting planes in our out of the country. After another tense morning on Thursday, his company decided to book flights for all the employees and by Friday morning Mark was flying home—he ended up spending less than five days there. The entire situation is so crazy and awful for both sides; even his Israeli coworkers said they hadn't seen it so bad in years (and the civilian casualties in Gaza are horrific). Mark said it felt incredibly surreal to go through, like he was living in a video game. I'm so so grateful to have him back safely now, but once the fighting and tension die down, he will likely be expected to return since the project is still going forward. I'm not such a fan of this prospect... We'll see what happens. Who knew the life of a structural engineer would be so hair-raising?

2. Despite the stress I experienced (and felt constantly in my shoulders and jaws), I held myself together remarkably well. I didn't even cry once! And I cry all the time—every point on my emotional spectrum is usually associated with tears of some kind. Happy tears. Frustrated tears. Scared tears. But when a situation is so far out of your control, I couldn't see anything else to do but stay calm and trust that everything would be okay for us. The very last thing I wanted to do was be an additional stressor for Mark by making him constantly worry about how I was feeling, so I did everything I could to keep myself calm. Of course I was concerned, and incredibly relieved to have Mark back home on Friday night, but getting worked up and freaking out would have only burdened him at a time I just wanted him to focus on getting himself and his team through it, and I think he really appreciated that. Honestly, I kind of surprised myself. As someone prone to anxiety, I've freaked out for far lesser concerns. This was a growth experience and I hope I can let the memory of this situation continue to give me perspective on what's worthy of my worries in the future. It also gave me a fair dose of perspective and empathy; if I was worried about my husband—who was being taken care of by his company, and who got to leave the country when things got ugly—I couldn't even imagine what it must be like to live in any place with a constant threat of violence, or to have a loved one in the armed forces, or to be a parent of a child injured in one of these attacks. Even though it was a challenge to go through, I came out of it feeling very fortunate.  

3. Does anyone have any recommendations for books set in Ireland? I'm in the mood to feel nostalgic about a place that we lived and loved right now. I'd prefer contemporary fiction to something classic like James Joyce or Oscar Wilde, but I'm open to any and all suggestions.

4. While Mark was gone last week, I kept coming up with reasons why life is just better when he is around. For example, without Mark at home, I didn't have his regular milk in the fridge so when I went to mix up macaroni and cheese with the noodles I'd already cooked, I discovered I only had my vanilla almond milk. *crying face emoji* FYI: Don't ever do that; it was just as horrible as you're probably imagining it would be. And if you're wondering why a fully grown adult lady would be eating boxed macaroni and cheese, just go away because mac and cheese is (usually) delicious and I was in need of serious comfort food, no shame.

5. I just bought this "Walk Write Wander Wonder" t-shirt by designer Christine Herrin from the Cotton Bureau, and I can't wait to get it. Cotton Bureau is a website where designers submit graphic t-shirt designs, which are then sent to print if they receive a certain number of pre-orders. This Walk Write Wander Wonder tee is already set to go to print, but I thought I'd share it here in case there are any other wanderlusty writers like me out there—it's just too perfect. As I mentioned in my Summer Capsule Wardrobe blog post, my current lounge wear is in definite need of replacement, so I'm excited to add this shirt into the mix. Related: I found this pin about how to style a graphic tee and thought it was quite helpful for those times I want to look a little more pulled together.

Link Love : June

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I noticed a Target commercial airing this month describing their "direct trade" coffee program. As the marketing-skeptic I am, I wondered if "direct trade" was just some meaningless advertising lingo trying to pass as Fair Trade. But I found this article that helped illuminate the pros/cons of both Fair Trade and Direct Trade. Coffee drinkers, both of these are terms worth paying attention to if you care about ethically-sourced coffee (which you should!).

Speaking of coffee, here's your complete guide to iced coffee and every method to procure it. I had no idea there were so many iced coffee styles!

Chuck Palahniuk has some wise advice for writers about avoiding "thought" verbs. Show, don't tell.

How millenials are changing travel. HECK YES. Mark and I have been very intentional about living in a way that allows us to travel now—as opposed to when we retire—and we are very grateful (and privileged) that working and traveling abroad have not been mutually exclusive.

FitBit addicts, you'll love this one: David Sedaris on living the FitBit life. I'm not a user, but this article did seriously make me miss living in Ireland where we had the space and trails to roam endlessly, something sorely lacking in my urban environment.

The reason we keep saying ‘I don’t know’ is because we’re afraid of making decisions. YUP.

Food & Wine shows us the easiest way to peel a hard-boiled egg. I don't know why I never thought of this myself.

This article understands me: The cult following of Tiny Beautiful Things.

I was a bit of an odd duck for being so bookish growing up; I'm so glad to see how Book Girls today are able to find fandom, community, and connection online and off. I really I wish I would have had resources like Tavi/Rookie magazine, the Nerdfighter community, Tumblr and YouTube, etc. when I was young!

15 Cities for Creative 20-Somethings That Aren't NY or LA (h/t to Cassie of Witty Title Here)

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BONUS TIME... I've decided to start including a few favorite podcast episodes that I've listened to over the course of each month. As I mentioned in my podcast roundup post, I very much pick and choose podcast episodes to listen to (especially with interview-based podcasts) so it seemed like this was a good place to include some of my recent favorites.

Podcast Love:
Lena Dunham on WTF with Marc Maron: I cringed every time he pronounced her name "Lay-na" instead of "Lee-na" in the intro, but her interview was delightful, per usual. She is such a smart cookie, and shared some interesting personal info that varied from her frequent vomiting tendencies to how she views Woody Allen's work vs. the man himself.

RuPaul on WTF with Marc Maron: Of course RuPaul is fascinating; who would have expected otherwise? I listened to this one twice, and I particularly liked when he discussed social expectations and the Matrix-y "red pill vs. blue pill" concept. I had all these thoughts afterwards about not taking life so seriously and treating it more like a performance.

Anthony Bourdain on The Nerdist: I can see how some think Bourdain is a bit dickish, but I find him fascinating. I was most interested in the talk about "foodie culture" co-opting traditional dishes and ingredients from lower classes (and charging a premium, of course). It made me think about the implications of this practice.

Kyla Roma on the Sarah R. Bagley Podcast: I so appreciated Kyla's open and honest discussion of her generalized anxiety disorder, and I saw a lot of myself in her experiences.

Loving a 9-to-5 Job with Mr. Lively on the Lively Show: I often think the blog world puts entrepreneurship on a pedestal, but I don't think that's the reality (or the assumed objective) for a lot of people. I enjoyed Jess's podcast with her husband, who works a traditional job. He shares about finding the right job fit and discusses having an entrepreneur for a partner.

June Rewind.

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June in Photos

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5 Things that Happened in June

1. Mark came home from Israel, was home for three days, and then got shipped off to Phoenix for another business trip. And, as I mentioned a few days ago, he got official word that he'll be sent to Israel for three months and leaves in a week.
2. We attended a Food Truck Rally hosted in our town, which was so fun! I'd never visited a food truck before, and it was super fun to try a bunch of different trucks at once. We had a perogi sampler; empanadas filled with sweet corn and Malbec beef; grilled cheese with raspberry jam, avocado, and poblano peppers; Asian dumplings; kim chi and cheese fried rice balls; and a mango lassi. We were about as full as you'd expect after all that food.
3. Our friends Emily and Tim got married! It was a great day overall. Just before the reception, it started pouring buckets of rain, but it turns out that Emily and Tim had a special deal with their jewelry store that if it rained an inch or more on their wedding day, the cost of their rings would be refunded. Just as dinner was starting, the DJ ran in with a piece of paper and said he had an official announcement that there was more than an inch of rain, and everyone cheered for them. So that was a nice $$$$ bonus to start off their marriage!
4. We began receiving our CSA share, and I've been quite successful at using everything we've received so far. Granted, I get the feeling we're getting less produce in our boxes than we were in year's past, but at least it's not going to waste?
5. I read a lot (see below). I guess that's what happens when I'm left all by my lonesome a lot :)

Read in June

The History of Love by Nicole Krauss: I really enjoyed this book. The writing is solid, and the story and the characters were touching and tragic. A few specific passages made my heart hurt.
It's Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini: I'm conflicted about how I feel about this one. On one hand, I admire how the main character was able see how he needed to seek help for his depression, but I feel like his depression was handled very "neatly," which came across as too simple and unrealistic. Since it is a YA book, maybe it was supposed to be an inspiration for teens going through hard times, but then that message is made quite complicated since the author tragically took his own life recently. So my feelings are complicated. 
The Opposite of Loneliness by Marina Keegan: This is a posthumous collection of essays published after the 22-year-old writer was killed in a car crash. It's not hard to see why so many people thought she showed so much promise and talent. Many stories seemed a bit unfinished and the language was loose in some passages, but in a way this adds to the reader's sense of loss over the author's life. I don't read a lot of short stories, and I didn't quite understand the deeper meaning of some of the stories, but I really liked this collection overall.
Ghost World by Daniel Clowes: This is a short, well-known graphic novel. The two main characters are insufferable, but I somehow felt that the depiction of these two teen hipster girls and their friendship was somehow more accurate than a lot of portrayals of adolescence. I liked the end of the graphic novel and how the story wrapped up.
Fun Home by Allison Bechdel: Another graphic novel. I picked it up after a Booktuber recommended it and then saw all the accolades on its cover, including being named Time magazine's #1 book for 2006. It is a graphic memoir depicting Bechdel's life from childhood through her college years. It largely centers around the death of her father, which occurred a few weeks after Bechdel came out to her parents and it is revealed to Bechdel that her father was gay. The book chronicles her memories and experiences as they are re-filtered through this new knowledge about her father. The novel is subtle, calculated, and very smart, and the artwork is really worth examining as you read.

Favorite Song from June

I'm such a Lana fangirl, and I love the entire new album, Ultraviolence, from start to finish. I can't pick just one song, so here's the album trailer/sampler:
 
 

What I'm Looking Forward to in July

Lots of projects! Honestly, I'm a wee bit nervous to embrace the solo life again for the next few months while Mark is gone, so I'm planning on throwing myself into a few solid projects to keep myself busy at home. I want to work on 1 or 2 short stories (with the intention of seeing if the ideas are strong enough to be expanded into a novel); get my YT book channel up and running in the next few weeks; work through Blogilates' month-long beginner workout; and finally finish my Ireland photo album design. Aside from that, I'm sure I'll read a ton and I have some ideas for a sewing project. If Misfit's health is doing okay and she recovers from surgery quickly, maybe I can squeeze in a trip to the lake house in Wisconsin, or a trip to Minneapolis or Ann Arbor to see friends. We shall see!

Minimalist Style : The Capsule Wardrobe, Summer Edition

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Capsule Wardrobe-Uniform-Summer Since my transition to natural makeup is complete and has been checked off my 2014 project list, I want to blog a little bit about Project #2—refining and minimizing my wardrobe (and, to a greater extent, my possessions as a whole). This process has been in progress for several months now, and I've already made numerous dropoffs at Goodwill and have a corner piled high with items reserved for a garage sale or Craigslist/eBay.

The why's behind this minimizing effort are pretty simple. At some point, I became quite uncomfortable with consumer culture, likely due in part to my academic studies and experiences working in the advertising industry. Once I started questioning the norm, I couldn't stop. What is the point of being "in fashion?" To whom does it matter if you have the latest and greatest gadget? Does "stuff" make you happy? (No. Numerous studies have shown that happiness resulting from the acquisition of material items is temporary and part of an ongoing consumer cycle.) If not, then why do we care so much about clothes and belongings? Why do we crave newness and change through the stuff we own? Why is shopping such a common pastime, especially for women? What are the environmental costs of always trying to keep up with the Joneses—what happens to all the outdated and discarded stuff?

These questions only got louder as I realized I was not happy with my career. Once I put it together that I could change my lifestyle and spending habits (which were not all that out-of-control to begin with) and allow myself the flexibility and freedom to explore new paths, travel, and do more of what I actually want to be doing, I saw no reason not to give it a try. The story of the Businessman and the Fisherman and Alan Watt's "What if money was no object?" definitely resonated with me at this point.

I got to put my ideas into practice when we lived in Ireland in 2012, and I wrote about the lessons I learned from living with less in a post on my previous blog. At its core, a simpler lifestyle allows for more freedom. I'm very privileged to be able to say that, as some people live frugally or have a smaller income not by any choice of their own. But for us it is a welcome choice to have one car, live in a 700 square foot condo, to walk almost everywhere, and to spend discriminately, primarily choosing experiences over material items.

The paring-down process is an ongoing effort though, and I certainly do not call myself a minimalist, at least not yet. This year I've been focusing on the idea of a capsule wardrobe to make dealing with clothes even easier. The concept is to first determine your signature style and then to pare your wardrobe down to a reasonable collection of basics that you can use in countless combinations. If you've heard of Project 333 before—where you limit yourself to 33 pieces for three months, capsule wardrobes follow the same general idea.

Above you can see a representation of my summer capsule wardrobe. I first took a look at my style and celebrity fashion boards on Pinterest and compared them with the clothes I own and wear regularly. I created this collage from internet images (totally easier than taking a photo of every item for this post myself), but each of these pieces can already be found in my closet. I didn't depict every single item, as I do have some pieces in a range of colors, like the tanks, t-shirts, skinny jeans, and shorts. But I'm essentially working with a neutrals + blue color scheme, and going for a classic, relaxed vibe with a few bohemian touches.

Here are the biggest benefits I find in a simpler wardrobe (many of which are also applied towards home decor and other lifestyle areas):
• Less investment: Knowing that I have a defined capsule wardrobe eliminates impulse (and often regrettable) clothing purchases and saves a great deal of money. If you want to change your look a little bit, you can do that through smaller pieces like jewelry and scarves (I personally won't change up my accessories very much, however). 
More flexibility: The clothes work together in several different combinations, giving my wardrobe more versatility than when I had specific outfits or items that needed to be worn together.
Less time/brain power: With fewer options, less time is needed to get ready in the morning. I also save a considerable amount of time because shopping for fun is not something I do anymore, ever. Shopping has never been that fun for me, so I happily avoid stores and malls unless I need to replace an item or need to add something specific to my capsule, which can usually be a quick in-and-out trip.  
A better-defined style: Creating a capsule has given me a clear picture of what I like, and feels like it represents me much better than the random collection of items that I liked and purchased in the past. When I think about celebrities or people I know with a very defined look, it's usually because they are known for sporting the same kinds of items all the time. It's not boring, it's a signature. Creating a capsule wardrobe is helping to start to establish this signature look for myself.
Realistic: This wardrobe works for the life I have. It removes the need for those aspirational pieces that I may or may not fit into "someday," and embraces the fact that I am: 1) not very fancy and 2) mostly boring. Aside from one nicer wedding-appropriate dress, I don't need formal or evening attire because I rarely attend events requiring this kind of clothing. I'm all for embracing what is real—and comfortable ; )    
Quality over quantity: Since the capsule wardrobe pares down your clothing to the basics which are worn quite often, the quality of the clothes does matter. This often means you might need to skip Target and Forever 21 and spend a little more to get something that lasts, but I believe that is better for your wallet and the environment in the long run. Fast fashion is an awful industry; I hope to do a book review on Overdressed: The Shockingly High Cost of Cheap Fashion in the next few weeks. When it comes time to replace some of my clothes, I will be looking into companies like Everlane and Seamly.co, or even some higher-end brands for everyday items requiring significant longevity (like shoes).

Even though I'm happy with my summer capsule wardrobe, I already can see that there are some holes that I need to fill in, so it's not like I've eliminated shopping or spending completely. At home, I mostly wear loungewear, which currently means old holey yoga pants and faded, grungy, cotton t-shirts. Since I wear these items everyday, it's time for an upgrade. I started a Wunderlist on my iPhone with a small list of items that I need to buy and I'll be sticking to this list when I go into any stores.

Other than the book review I mentioned and sharing my fall/winter capsule later in the year, I'm not yet sure how this project and series will play out on my blog. If you have any particular questions about my capsule wardrobe experience or the process of minimizing, please let me know! 

P.S. - A huge motivation for me in finally embracing the capsule wardrobe idea was recently finding the YouTube channel Light by Coco. Coco vlogs about living light, capsule wardrobes, fitness, and traveling, and her fashion videos are edited beautifully. Plus she's tall and gorgeous and basically a model. Check out her channel! Here's her most recent video:


 

P.P.S.- I also found this video last night from YouTube user Carrie LeighAnna, and when she showed how you can wear some dresses BACKWARDS to play with the neckline and increase their versatility, my mind was BLOWN. I think it works better with some of her dresses over others, but it's an amazing idea nonetheless. I checked out my closet and this trick totally works with two of my dresses, and also looked awesome when paired with a cardigan or jacket over the dress. So cool.


Coffee Chat // June 25, 2014

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1. Here we go again... Remember how I announced that Mark was going to be sent to Israel for a few months for work and then told you I was just kidding about that because his company nixed that part of the project? Well, I was just kidding about just kidding! The project is back on, and Mark was given a three-week notice that he'll be leaving for Israel for three months. Welcome to my life, where I have literally no idea where my husband will be two weeks from any given date. Over the course of May and June, he's been on business trips to Portland, Israel, and Phoenix, and we've seen each other for a total of three days over a three-week period. We're not sure yet whether or not I'll be visiting Israel while he's there. {UPDATE: Have you seen the news lately? Ugh, awful. I will not be visiting, and I will be hoping and wishing with all the bones in my body that Mark's company will call him back home given the violence and unrest. Otherwise, it will be a very long and stressful three months.}

2. Israel-travel aside, I am super excited because my mom has booked a two-week family vacation to visit Austria, Germany, and Switzerland in September! As a family, we've never traveled much farther than northern Wisconsin together, and my mom has been talking about wanting to go to Europe with us since my brother and I graduated college. It only took us about five years to coordinate our schedules. I've been to a few of the cities before, but I'm excited to see more of these countries and to be able to celebrate Mark's and my sixth wedding anniversary in another country! As I think about the trip, I'm contemplating filming a travel vlog on my DSLR in lieu of taking pictures (especially since my mom will already be taking a ton of photos and is a pretty good photographer).

3. Speaking of vlogs, some of you might remember that I mentioned a while back about starting a book-focused YouTube channel. I haven't abandoned this idea at all, but getting the project rolling has not been without challenges. My camera fell off my tripod and broke the lens while I was filming the intro, and then I discovered my in-camera audio is pretty piss-poor, so I'm on the hunt for a microphone. But we're getting closer, people! I'm not being a total perfectionist about this whole thing, but I do want it to not totally suck, ya know? I did create a cute little banner this week, so at least that's something :)

4. My poor Cancer Cat is going in for a second surgery next week, so keep us in your thoughts! She's basically fine aside from an awful tumor that keeps growing back, and the only way to (potentially) make it go away permanently would be a 30-day course of daily radiation at a clinic an hour away from home costing an estimated $10,000-12,000. Misfit, I'm sorry and I love you, but no. So the best we can do is surgically remove the mass again and hope that the cancer is slow to spread into the rest of her body. We likely don't have too many more months left with her :(

5. I came very close to deleting my blog this month. It almost feels like a cliche at this point to talk about this as a personal blogger (and I've already discussed it in the past), but the feelings are real, however unoriginal. On an individual level, I'm not sure if the energy it takes is worth it. What's the purpose of it for me, what am I building? If it is merely a creative outlet, is that the best use of my time? (Creative expression feels oddly selfish and pointless to me lately.) If it's just a journal or place to practice writing, why not keep it private? On a more social level, I'm just not that into the blog world lately. So much of what I see online is either aspirational (lifestyle blogs that are so focused on outward appearances, aesthetics, and consumption/consumerism that they feel materialistic and staged) or motivational (life-coach-y, "ten tips to be a better human!" type of blogs, which I just find  impersonal and reductive). I crave realness, stories, emotion, and getting beyond the surface-level, even if it isn't always picture perfect or wrapped up as a neat little life lesson—and how do I find more of this? For now, I will keep on keeping on—I recognize that often what we seek and desire is something to be found within, pointing to action that we need to take on our own rather than pointing fingers at external forces. I will try to write more from the heart myself, and work a little harder to find more personal bloggers to connect with. I'll admit—it's a challenge for me to both focus on creating my own honest content (blog writing or otherwise) and carve my own path, while still wanting to be a part of something larger and foster community. They feel like opposing forces sometimes.

On My Nightstand : Summer Reads

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On My Nightstand-summer reads
Now that vacations are on the calendar and visits to the park are a weekly occurrence, I've been scanning my bookshelves and picking out a few new releases that sound like perfect summer reads. Anyone who has read this blog—or my previous one—probably knows that I have a wee issue with commitment, so it's best if you do not assume that I will read exactly these five books this summer. If I check two off of this list along (along with one or two spontaneous picks), I'll be happy—each one sounds fantastic. (Descriptions via Goodreads.) 

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The Opposite of Loneliness by Marina Keegan: An affecting and hope-filled posthumous collection of essays and stories from the talented young Yale graduate whose title essay captured the world's attention in 2012 and turned her into an icon for her generation."

Honestly, it had me at the title. While Icon for her generation" brings to mind Hannah Horvath and her grand proclamations, I've heard nothing but amazing things about this collection of short stories and it is so tragic that the author was killed in a car accident given her promising future as a writer. 

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Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche: ... a story of love and race centered around a young man and woman from Nigeria who face difficult choices and challenges in the countries they come to call home."

After breaking down my reading statistics from last year in true nerd fashion (ex. YA vs. Adult, fiction vs. non-fiction, male vs. female authors, etc.), I realized that I read embarrassingly few non-American, non-white authors. One of the Booktubers I follow spoke of the importance of reading diversely, and I've been looking for ways to do that myself. Americanah gets high praise from the Book Riot podcast, so it jumped to the top of my list. Plus, Lupita Nyong'o just optioned the film rights, and I ADORE HER, so I'm getting a jump start on reading the book before the movie gets made. (Question for anyone who might be familiar with this author: Do you recommend I read Half of a Yellow Sun before Americanah?)  

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Tracks: A Woman's Solo Trek Across 1700 Miles of Australian Outback by Robyn Davidson: Davidson emerges as an extraordinarily courageous heroine driven by a love of Australia's landscape, an empathy for its indigenous people, and a willingness to cast away the trappings of her former identity. Tracks is the compelling, candid story of her odyssey of discovery and transformation."

This is an older book, but after loving Cheryl Strayed's Wild, I am down for another story about a woman on a solo journey through remote lands. The movie adaptation of the book will be released later this year, starring Mia Wasikowska and Adam Driver.

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All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr: ... a stunningly ambitious and beautiful novel about a blind French girl and a German boy whose paths collide in occupied France as both try to survive the devastation of World War II."

I am not a huge historical fiction fan, but when I do read the genre, the books I pick almost always center around World War II. I heard someone absolutely rave about this book (though for the life of me, I cannot remember who), and knew I had to read it. I hear the writing is exquisite.

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Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: A Year of Food Life by Barbara Kingsolver: Part memoir, part journalistic investigation, Animal, Vegetable, Miracle makes a passionate case for putting the kitchen back at the center of family life and diversified farms at the center of the American diet."

This one has been lingering on my bookshelf for ages, and it's time to give it a read. Since our CSA just started back up, I think it's a perfect time to read about the value of local, sustainable food.

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So tell me—what's on your summer reading list? I really wish that Amy Poehler's Yes Please and Lena Dunham's Not That Kind of Girl were coming out before the fall. Is there someone in publishing we can bribe for an earlier release date?! I guess I'll have to settle for pre-ordering them!