Going Natural: The Detox Market's Best of Green Beauty Box
My interest in beauty products waxes and wanes, but around my January birthday I get a bit of a "treat yo self" mentality, and that usually results in a purchase or two. I blame Sephora's free birthday gift for VIB's, which tends to start me down the rabbit hole.
As I mentioned in my February goal setting post, I have a renewed interest in skincare. I suppose it's appropriate—nothing like your yearly mortality reminder to make you desire the skin of a baby angel's butt!
This led me to discovering The Detox Market's Best of Green Beauty box. A few years ago, I made it a personal project to convert to mostly natural beauty items, and I've maintained a general interest in that even though I haven't blogged much about it nor made that many purchases. Last month, I realized I was in need of mascara and highlighter. While I was poking around some green beauty Instagram accounts, I saw this box featuring The Detox Market's favorite products from 2015. It contained the RMS Living Luminizer and the W3LL PEOPLE mascara that I'd heard great things about, plus a Kypris serum and One Love Organics powdered dry shampoo, both of which I was curious to try. And I'm almost out of moisturizer, so sure I'll try Odacité!
While the box is a splurge, it felt like a decent value given the total cost of the products and the fact that I wanted to buy several of them already. Plus, it was my birthday and TREAT YO SELF.
This was my first time ordering from The Detox Market, though I had heard positive reviews of the shop. I was super impressed at how fast my order shipped, and the packaging was adorable—check out those white hearts on the inside of the box! They also included a small bag of samples with my order, including a natural sunscreen I've been wanting to try.
Aside from this box, I also placed a small Sephora order for a mini sample set of skincare products from Ole Henriksen, a company that, while not an entirely natural brand, blends scientific research with natural ingredients to make effective products, and I'm curious to see how they work for me. And, as I've mentioned at least twice already because I'm so excited, I won a Winter Glow kit from Herbivore Botanicals, which will probably be featured in another post because the products themselves are so beautiful and smell effing amazing.
Even with these new products, I'm eager to find a routine that works for me, rather than constantly looking for and trying new things, and have no plans to buy anything else for a long while. If I end up liking more than a few of these products, I might do a more in-depth natural(ish) skincare routine blog post. I also have the book Skin Cleanse on request from the library, and a review will be forthcoming if I find it informative.
Let the pampering commence, and the glowing skin follow ;)
January Recap & Febrary Goals
{Snapshot of January via my Instagram}
I feel like I JUST set my goals for January and here we are on the last day of the month. Time, man. Of course, it was already a third of the way through the month when I wrote that blog post. So how did I do with my goals over the twenty remaining days? Let's take a look...
JANUARY GOALS
BODY | Use a standing desk when editing videos and doing administrative work.
I would say I did this about 50-60% of the time. And even when I was sitting at my desk, I found that I was looking for excuses to get up and move around a little bit throughout the day.
MIND | Complete two writing sessions using creative writing prompts.
Done. And while I don't consider it 'creative writing' per se, I am trying to blog more regularly and I have transitioned to preparing full outlines for my videos instead of winging them on the spot, so I feel like I'm writing and processing my thoughts more in general.
SOUL | Start my morning by reading for 1/2-1 hour instead of picking up my phone or computer.
I am calling this goal achieved, though I didn't always read. I set my alarm to NPR, and I found that many mornings I enjoyed just taking the time to listen to the news. (On the other hand, this sometimes caused an inadvertent spike in my anxiety level, depending on the state of the world at any given time or how terrible the current Republican frontrunners are being, so I have to be mindful of that.) However, because my phone is still in the bedroom since I have a USB wall socket right next to my bed, the temptation to pick up my phone in the morning is still there. So I'm going to pull out my regular iPhone plug and move it into the living room for overnight charging.
LIGHT | Clear my laptop of excess files and clutter.
This was totally achieved, though I cheated a bit to get there. As I mentioned, I fried my external hard drive a few months ago. This month I ended up buying a new one, and I was able to clear off my laptop after backing up my files. I did ended up deleting over 48GB worth of old files on my laptop—though technically these files now just live on my external drive and I could still stand to go through them at some point. But the hard drive was a VERY necessary purchase, and I'm glad (avoiding) this goal led me to biting the bullet to buy another.
ONE LITTLE WORD : JANUARY REFLECTIONS
Before I jump into February goals, I wanted to detail a few of the other ways my One Little Word of "Light" appeared in my life this month—because half of what makes your word so great is seeing all the unplanned ways it shows up.
• Given that it's mid-winter in Portland—read: overcast, rainy, and often dark—I found myself paying more attention to daylight in general, and shifting towards the light when it did appear. I felt a physical urge to go outside whenever the sun appeared, and I honored those cravings with lunchtime walks, even if it meant putting off what I "should" be doing. Whenever it was bright out, I would also sit as close to a window as possible and take regular breaks to appreciate the light. And on those bleak days where it's so dark the street lights never turn off, I made sure to take two vitamin D supplements.
• Another area I'm thinking about the idea of "light" is with makeup and skin care. It occurred to me that I mostly hate makeup. Or, rather, I hate the seemingly endless choices when it comes to makeup, both in terms of products for sale and how one chooses to do their makeup. It's aprocess industry that's made me feel less like myself, not more. So, I've decided that by the end of the year, I want to establish my own signature makeup look, settle on a small selection of products that make me happy and make me feel like ME, and eliminate ALL of the rest. I want to be entirely done with makeup experimentation.
• Quite related to the last point, I do want to put more of an effort into my skin. I struggled with severe cystic acne for many years, and my usage of makeup is definitely tied to that. As my skin has improved, I'm less interested in covering it up. But maintaining good skin does take a certain level of care (especially since I tend to be on the dry side), and it's something that is tied to self-care for me in a way that makeup is decidedly not. I bought a few new skin items this month including an Ole Henriksen mini kit and a natural beauty box from The Detox Market that has a few different products I've wanted to try, including a Kypris Beauty Elixir serum. My goal would certainly be hydrated, glowy skin where I'd feel the need for even less makeup.
• Funny enough, once I became focused on the idea of luminous, glowy skin, I happened to win an Instagram giveaway from Herbivore Botanicals for their Winter Glow kit! Manifestation at work ;)
• I also cut my hair, which is definitely making me feel lighter!
FEBRUARY GOALS
BODY | Get back on the workout train -- three times per week in February
While I walk basically everywhere and take a couple hikes per month, it's been a while since I exercised regularly. My current plan is to try for two Tone It Up workout videos per week, one yoga or pilates session per week, plus a series of daily stretches aimed at managing my piriformis syndrome. My focus will be on core-strengthening and flexibility. Given my current issues, I'm physically not able to "go hard" with any type of workout (no running, HIIT, lifting, etc.) so the Tone It Up girls' general cardio/toning will be a good place to start right now.
MIND | Read four books.
January was not a great reading month for me and I'd like to get to more books this month. My challenging is that I often read at night, but the evenings are also my time to spend with Mark and I often abandon my books to hang out or watch TV with him. It will probably be worth trying to read for an hour at lunch instead of doing work or farting around on the internet.
SOUL | Practice daily gratitude.
I'm calling this my "Light" goal for the month as well because I think it's so beneficial to look for the bright spots in each day. I started doing this over the last several days of January and I want to continue the practice. Once again, my Inkwell press planner is coming in handy; I've been using one of the three daily sidebar boxes to record at least one thing I was grateful for during the day.
{Blog photo: Image via Death To The Stock Photo, text via Cocorrina's 2015 Calendar}
JANUARY GOALS
BODY | Use a standing desk when editing videos and doing administrative work.
I would say I did this about 50-60% of the time. And even when I was sitting at my desk, I found that I was looking for excuses to get up and move around a little bit throughout the day.
MIND | Complete two writing sessions using creative writing prompts.
Done. And while I don't consider it 'creative writing' per se, I am trying to blog more regularly and I have transitioned to preparing full outlines for my videos instead of winging them on the spot, so I feel like I'm writing and processing my thoughts more in general.
SOUL | Start my morning by reading for 1/2-1 hour instead of picking up my phone or computer.
I am calling this goal achieved, though I didn't always read. I set my alarm to NPR, and I found that many mornings I enjoyed just taking the time to listen to the news. (On the other hand, this sometimes caused an inadvertent spike in my anxiety level, depending on the state of the world at any given time or how terrible the current Republican frontrunners are being, so I have to be mindful of that.) However, because my phone is still in the bedroom since I have a USB wall socket right next to my bed, the temptation to pick up my phone in the morning is still there. So I'm going to pull out my regular iPhone plug and move it into the living room for overnight charging.
LIGHT | Clear my laptop of excess files and clutter.
This was totally achieved, though I cheated a bit to get there. As I mentioned, I fried my external hard drive a few months ago. This month I ended up buying a new one, and I was able to clear off my laptop after backing up my files. I did ended up deleting over 48GB worth of old files on my laptop—though technically these files now just live on my external drive and I could still stand to go through them at some point. But the hard drive was a VERY necessary purchase, and I'm glad (avoiding) this goal led me to biting the bullet to buy another.
ONE LITTLE WORD : JANUARY REFLECTIONS
Before I jump into February goals, I wanted to detail a few of the other ways my One Little Word of "Light" appeared in my life this month—because half of what makes your word so great is seeing all the unplanned ways it shows up.
• Given that it's mid-winter in Portland—read: overcast, rainy, and often dark—I found myself paying more attention to daylight in general, and shifting towards the light when it did appear. I felt a physical urge to go outside whenever the sun appeared, and I honored those cravings with lunchtime walks, even if it meant putting off what I "should" be doing. Whenever it was bright out, I would also sit as close to a window as possible and take regular breaks to appreciate the light. And on those bleak days where it's so dark the street lights never turn off, I made sure to take two vitamin D supplements.
• Another area I'm thinking about the idea of "light" is with makeup and skin care. It occurred to me that I mostly hate makeup. Or, rather, I hate the seemingly endless choices when it comes to makeup, both in terms of products for sale and how one chooses to do their makeup. It's a
• Quite related to the last point, I do want to put more of an effort into my skin. I struggled with severe cystic acne for many years, and my usage of makeup is definitely tied to that. As my skin has improved, I'm less interested in covering it up. But maintaining good skin does take a certain level of care (especially since I tend to be on the dry side), and it's something that is tied to self-care for me in a way that makeup is decidedly not. I bought a few new skin items this month including an Ole Henriksen mini kit and a natural beauty box from The Detox Market that has a few different products I've wanted to try, including a Kypris Beauty Elixir serum. My goal would certainly be hydrated, glowy skin where I'd feel the need for even less makeup.
• Funny enough, once I became focused on the idea of luminous, glowy skin, I happened to win an Instagram giveaway from Herbivore Botanicals for their Winter Glow kit! Manifestation at work ;)
• I also cut my hair, which is definitely making me feel lighter!
FEBRUARY GOALS
BODY | Get back on the workout train -- three times per week in February
While I walk basically everywhere and take a couple hikes per month, it's been a while since I exercised regularly. My current plan is to try for two Tone It Up workout videos per week, one yoga or pilates session per week, plus a series of daily stretches aimed at managing my piriformis syndrome. My focus will be on core-strengthening and flexibility. Given my current issues, I'm physically not able to "go hard" with any type of workout (no running, HIIT, lifting, etc.) so the Tone It Up girls' general cardio/toning will be a good place to start right now.
MIND | Read four books.
January was not a great reading month for me and I'd like to get to more books this month. My challenging is that I often read at night, but the evenings are also my time to spend with Mark and I often abandon my books to hang out or watch TV with him. It will probably be worth trying to read for an hour at lunch instead of doing work or farting around on the internet.
SOUL | Practice daily gratitude.
I'm calling this my "Light" goal for the month as well because I think it's so beneficial to look for the bright spots in each day. I started doing this over the last several days of January and I want to continue the practice. Once again, my Inkwell press planner is coming in handy; I've been using one of the three daily sidebar boxes to record at least one thing I was grateful for during the day.
Happy February to you!
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Link Love : January
♥ The recipe for a perfect bento box-style lunch to take to work. Related: A list of different toppings to mix up your grain bowls.
♥ Herbivore Botanicals is offering a new Winter Glow kit, and I'm SO excited because I actually won a set in an Instagram giveaway last week. I've been wanting to try their products for ages and just could decide which ones, so I'm thrilled to play with this kit and I'll let you know what I think! (Either here on the blog or on Instagram.) That facial mist in particular is supposed to be amazing.
♥ Maybe the our problem with technology isn't the amount of time we're spending online, but the quality of the people we choose to follow. Your time online should support your goals and visions for your life.
♥ In art appreciation, I'm loving: these compiled photographs, this artist's flowers series, and these ephemeral nature drawings.
♥ Things only people who hate talking on the phone will understand. Too real. Especially the charts for "reasons to die" and "people you don't mind talking to on the phone." Truly awful.
♥ A great episode of the Call Your Girlfriend podcast for you liberal-leaning folks out there in which the ladies discuss the reason behind their support of Hillary despite agreeing with a lot of Bernie's stances. This was personally-relevant to me at this current point in the election cycle and gave me some good food-for-thought. (FYI: They start this discussion around the 14-minute mark.)
♥ Kara Haupt's interview on Babe Vibes was great, as expected, and this line hit me right in the gut: "Everyone is carrying around all their shit and most of us are not touching it, and then we are supposed to interact authentically? What a nightmare." Ooof.
♥ The Norwegian secret to enjoying a long winter.
My Favorite Spots in Oak Park, Illinois.
While my love for my former town of Oak Park was no secret, especially on Instagram, it rarely made its way into my blog content. Probably because I have an overactive imagination and thought that if I blogged about my relatively small town too much, some weirdo would figure out where I lived and I'd find myself with an unwelcome stalker. (Not that stalkers are ever welcome... You know what I mean.)
A while back someone asked me on Instagram for some Oak Park suggestions, so this post is dedicated to all my favorite Oak Park spots. For those not in the know, Oak Park is the first town outside of Chicago city limits to the west. It's about seven miles from The Loop (Chicago's central business district) and can be reached by public transportation with the Metra or the Green Line to central Oak Park, or the Blue Line along the southern border. It was my home for more than seven years. I may be entirely biased, but I adored Oak Park—it's a very community-oriented village, and has everything from cute little shops and cafes in brick buildings to beautiful old Victorian homes. And let's not forget about Frank.
If you're a Chicagoan looking for a new area to explore, or if you're visiting Chicago and want a great and accessible day-trip, particularly if you're into architecture, definitely make your way to Oak Park! And then email me to tell me how much you loved it, because I really miss it! :( If I could have picked it up and made it a new neighborhood of Portland, I would have, *le sigh.*
NICE PLACES TO EAT
Maya del Sol - Modern Latin fusion restaurant with solidly good food and drinks. Try any of their benedicts for brunch, or the stuffed squash or Ropa Vieja for dinner. And Nachos del Sol, always. But the real star: their absolutely kick-ass patio, day or night. We frequented this restaurant more than any other in town, for sure.
Marion Street Cheese Market - Half cheese-and-wine shop, half restaurant. Described as an upscale bistro, they source most ingredients locally and rotate their menu seasonally. A good breakfast or lunch spot with girlfriends, or a nice date-night restaurant due to the evening ambiance and drink selection.
New Rebozo - Traditional upscale Mexican restaurant. Two things it's known for: 1) Chef Paco, the proprietor, an animated character who will come to greet every table and say, "Oh my God" a lot, and 2) their seasonal special, Chile en Nogada, a poblano pepper stuffed with a meat mixture and topped with a walnut cream sauce and pomegranates, only available in the late fall-early winter season. Other entrees are solidly good, but not particularly memorable.
Sen Sushi - Definitely the nicest sushi spot in the area, it's got that perfect modern minimalist Japanese vibe going on. The kind of place that puts sliced cucumber in the water, if that gives you a better picture. My favorite roll is the Ghost Ship with sweet potato and spicy tuna. My only warning is that it is a small restaurant and can get quite packed at peak hours.
(Side note: our actual favorite local sushi place was Bistro Sake in neighboring Forest Park; I thought their sushi was the best prepared and they have a killer crab-jalapeño appetizer called Wild Fire. However, ambiance is lacking with the huge—and often sparsely filled—dining room, so I definitely tend to recommend Sen Sushi to visitors.)
CASUAL OR QUICK PLACES TO EAT
Chicago's Home of Chicken & Waffles - Another place I've eaten at more times than I can count. Chicken and waffles are obviously menu staples, but I was a fan of their other soul food plates, especially the fried catfish with collard greens and mac and cheese.
Lake Street Kitchen + Bar - Rotating craft brew on tap and upscale bar food (small plates, salads, brick oven pizza, etc). Ambiance is cozy with lots of wood and exposed brick.
Kinderhook Tap - More of a friendly neighborhood feel compared to Lake Street Kitchen + Bar. The food is more casual too—burgers, sandwiches, fried things.
Mickey's Gyros & Ribs - As for straight-up greasy fast food joints, Mickey's was our favorite. Mark declared the ribs the best he's had in Oak Park; I liked their cheeseburgers and gyros. Don't expect: ambiance. Do expect: a little tough-guy Chicago attitude from the counter guys.
Amarind's Thai - There's Thai all over OP, but I had a hard time finding a place I loved. This was our favorite, though slightly off the beaten path on the north side.
* Lou Malnati's - Lou's is 100% my deep dish pizza of choice, and the Oak Park location is pretty great with a garage door storefront and a fun, industrial vibe. But still, it IS a (local) chain. If you're going to be in downtown Chicago at some other point, save the pizza for then and eat at an OP-only restaurant first.
CAFES & SWEETS
Sugar Fixe - Probably my most Instagrammed OP locale, lol. Fantastic pastries, especially the savory croissants. They used to serve Julius Meinl coffee that I LOVED, but they switched to La Columbe, which I'm a little indifferent towards.
Prairie Bread Kitchen - A few doors down from Sugar Fixe. They specialize in bread, but my most purchased item was a ham and cheese scone and Intelligentsia coffee (which is a Chicago roaster). Their apple cinnamon bread was fab too, especially warmed and served with butter. But skip the lunch sandwiches; they're super overpriced for what you get.
Hole in the Wall Frozen Custard - A hidden gem. It's the tiniest ice cream shop—literally, no more than 3 people can stand inside the door at once. The frozen custard is so good. I love the cherry dipped cones, or one of their freeze-ins (which is like a concrete or blizzard). Be prepared to wait in a line down the block and bring cash. Only open April to November-ish.
THINGS TO DO
Oak Park Farmer's Market - Every Saturday from end of May through mid-October, located in the church parking lot at 460 Lake St., a block west of Ridgeland Avenue. The fresh-made donuts alone are worth the trip to Oak Park—and there's usually a long line for them. It's a very kid-friendly market, and there's usually a group of folk musicians playing. It all adds up to feel like something out of Pleasantville, tbh, and I loved it.
Frank Lloyd Wright Home & Studio Tours - Visitors can tour the legendary architect's home and studio or take a self-guided audio walking tours past several notable homes and buildings that he designed in the area. I think there are sometimes Groupon deals (or the like) available for these tours, so search for that if you're interested. If you're SUPER into architecture or fancy homes and have some money to burn, you can buy tickets to the annual Housewalk in which current owners allow you inside their historic homes.
Hemingway Birthplace and Museum - If your interests are more literary than architectural, you can tour Hemingway's birthplace or visit the museum dedicated to him and his work. Fun fact: I'm pretty sure Hemingway was on record saying he hated Oak Park and the suburbs in general. Not that I blame him; don't we all feel that way about the suburbs we grew up in?
Walk the Historic District - If #CaitiwalksOakPark was any indication, I loved neighborhood walks. My favorite walk was north on Kennilworth to Chicago Ave., west on Chicago., and meander south on Forest Ave. and surrounding streets. The area northeast of Lake St./Oak Park Ave. was also fun to explore.
Oak Park Conservatory - A nice kid-friendly and/or crappy-weather activity. Or maybe if you just really like plants :) Bonus: if you're taking the Green Line into Oak Park, you'll also pass by the Garfield Park Conservatory, which is bigger than the OP one and often has cool sculpture/installation art on display.
Oak Park Festival Theatre in Austin Gardens - Outdoor community theater group that performs Shakespeare and some other classic plays each summer. Bring your lawn chair and enjoy the show! Tickets available through their website.
Summer Concert Series in Scoville Park - This free event features a different local band each Sunday evening throughout the summer. Located in the park next to the library. A casual, kid-friendly concert event.
PLACES TO SHOP
The Book Table - A great independent bookstore, perfect for browsing for a few hours. My only complaint is that there isn't anywhere to sit and read for a bit inside the store—mainly because there's no room for chairs! If you need more children's books, head to The Magic Tree Bookstore a few blocks away.
Gem - A shop full of unique jewelry designed mostly by independent artists. I'm not a jewelry person at all, but their shop is beautiful and stylish in its own right.
Careful Peach - A French-inspired interior and lifestyle shop. The perfect kind of shop to find hostess or wedding shower gifts.
Update Interiors - Fun and modern home decor accessories. Sort of an indie version of West Elm and Z Gallerie.
Muse - A clothing boutique featuring contemporary, stylish, and feminine designs from emerging designers and brands. I adore their store window displays—they usually look like a more modern version of Anthropologie.
BONUS: MADISON STREET IN NEIGHBORING FOREST PARK
Gaetano's - The best Italian food I've had in the US, and one of our most memorable dinners in the area. Go for the "Gaetapas" tasting menu for incredible variety: dishes like carpaccio salad, seared calamari steak, hand-formed ravioli, and more. Perfect for a special occasion. The interior and exterior definitely reminded me of Italy.
Shops - While I wasn't a frequent shopper, there are a wide variety of fun shops in this area. Todd & Holland for loose-leaf tea; Yearbook for home accessories with a masculine, collegiate vibe; Jayne for wearable women's fashion; Refind for sustainable interior decor; several antique stores; a knitting shop; a comic store; and a record store. It's a good spot to walk and shop!
For additional suggestions and photos of Oak Park, check out these links from Making It Lovely:
Independent Shopping in Oak Park | House Tour in Oak Park |
Frank Lloyd Wright Home & Studio | Downtown Oak Park
And lastly, just for fun, keep your eyes peeled for some well-known residents including Johnny Galecki, Tavi Gevinson, John Mahoney, and NPR's Peter Sagal. Tavi and Johnny live elsewhere now, but are often spotted visiting Oak Park.
A while back someone asked me on Instagram for some Oak Park suggestions, so this post is dedicated to all my favorite Oak Park spots. For those not in the know, Oak Park is the first town outside of Chicago city limits to the west. It's about seven miles from The Loop (Chicago's central business district) and can be reached by public transportation with the Metra or the Green Line to central Oak Park, or the Blue Line along the southern border. It was my home for more than seven years. I may be entirely biased, but I adored Oak Park—it's a very community-oriented village, and has everything from cute little shops and cafes in brick buildings to beautiful old Victorian homes. And let's not forget about Frank.
If you're a Chicagoan looking for a new area to explore, or if you're visiting Chicago and want a great and accessible day-trip, particularly if you're into architecture, definitely make your way to Oak Park! And then email me to tell me how much you loved it, because I really miss it! :( If I could have picked it up and made it a new neighborhood of Portland, I would have, *le sigh.*
NICE PLACES TO EAT
Maya del Sol - Modern Latin fusion restaurant with solidly good food and drinks. Try any of their benedicts for brunch, or the stuffed squash or Ropa Vieja for dinner. And Nachos del Sol, always. But the real star: their absolutely kick-ass patio, day or night. We frequented this restaurant more than any other in town, for sure.
Marion Street Cheese Market - Half cheese-and-wine shop, half restaurant. Described as an upscale bistro, they source most ingredients locally and rotate their menu seasonally. A good breakfast or lunch spot with girlfriends, or a nice date-night restaurant due to the evening ambiance and drink selection.
New Rebozo - Traditional upscale Mexican restaurant. Two things it's known for: 1) Chef Paco, the proprietor, an animated character who will come to greet every table and say, "Oh my God" a lot, and 2) their seasonal special, Chile en Nogada, a poblano pepper stuffed with a meat mixture and topped with a walnut cream sauce and pomegranates, only available in the late fall-early winter season. Other entrees are solidly good, but not particularly memorable.
Sen Sushi - Definitely the nicest sushi spot in the area, it's got that perfect modern minimalist Japanese vibe going on. The kind of place that puts sliced cucumber in the water, if that gives you a better picture. My favorite roll is the Ghost Ship with sweet potato and spicy tuna. My only warning is that it is a small restaurant and can get quite packed at peak hours.
(Side note: our actual favorite local sushi place was Bistro Sake in neighboring Forest Park; I thought their sushi was the best prepared and they have a killer crab-jalapeño appetizer called Wild Fire. However, ambiance is lacking with the huge—and often sparsely filled—dining room, so I definitely tend to recommend Sen Sushi to visitors.)
CASUAL OR QUICK PLACES TO EAT
Chicago's Home of Chicken & Waffles - Another place I've eaten at more times than I can count. Chicken and waffles are obviously menu staples, but I was a fan of their other soul food plates, especially the fried catfish with collard greens and mac and cheese.
Lake Street Kitchen + Bar - Rotating craft brew on tap and upscale bar food (small plates, salads, brick oven pizza, etc). Ambiance is cozy with lots of wood and exposed brick.
Kinderhook Tap - More of a friendly neighborhood feel compared to Lake Street Kitchen + Bar. The food is more casual too—burgers, sandwiches, fried things.
Mickey's Gyros & Ribs - As for straight-up greasy fast food joints, Mickey's was our favorite. Mark declared the ribs the best he's had in Oak Park; I liked their cheeseburgers and gyros. Don't expect: ambiance. Do expect: a little tough-guy Chicago attitude from the counter guys.
Amarind's Thai - There's Thai all over OP, but I had a hard time finding a place I loved. This was our favorite, though slightly off the beaten path on the north side.
* Lou Malnati's - Lou's is 100% my deep dish pizza of choice, and the Oak Park location is pretty great with a garage door storefront and a fun, industrial vibe. But still, it IS a (local) chain. If you're going to be in downtown Chicago at some other point, save the pizza for then and eat at an OP-only restaurant first.
CAFES & SWEETS
Sugar Fixe - Probably my most Instagrammed OP locale, lol. Fantastic pastries, especially the savory croissants. They used to serve Julius Meinl coffee that I LOVED, but they switched to La Columbe, which I'm a little indifferent towards.
Prairie Bread Kitchen - A few doors down from Sugar Fixe. They specialize in bread, but my most purchased item was a ham and cheese scone and Intelligentsia coffee (which is a Chicago roaster). Their apple cinnamon bread was fab too, especially warmed and served with butter. But skip the lunch sandwiches; they're super overpriced for what you get.
Hole in the Wall Frozen Custard - A hidden gem. It's the tiniest ice cream shop—literally, no more than 3 people can stand inside the door at once. The frozen custard is so good. I love the cherry dipped cones, or one of their freeze-ins (which is like a concrete or blizzard). Be prepared to wait in a line down the block and bring cash. Only open April to November-ish.
THINGS TO DO
Oak Park Farmer's Market - Every Saturday from end of May through mid-October, located in the church parking lot at 460 Lake St., a block west of Ridgeland Avenue. The fresh-made donuts alone are worth the trip to Oak Park—and there's usually a long line for them. It's a very kid-friendly market, and there's usually a group of folk musicians playing. It all adds up to feel like something out of Pleasantville, tbh, and I loved it.
Frank Lloyd Wright Home & Studio Tours - Visitors can tour the legendary architect's home and studio or take a self-guided audio walking tours past several notable homes and buildings that he designed in the area. I think there are sometimes Groupon deals (or the like) available for these tours, so search for that if you're interested. If you're SUPER into architecture or fancy homes and have some money to burn, you can buy tickets to the annual Housewalk in which current owners allow you inside their historic homes.
Hemingway Birthplace and Museum - If your interests are more literary than architectural, you can tour Hemingway's birthplace or visit the museum dedicated to him and his work. Fun fact: I'm pretty sure Hemingway was on record saying he hated Oak Park and the suburbs in general. Not that I blame him; don't we all feel that way about the suburbs we grew up in?
Walk the Historic District - If #CaitiwalksOakPark was any indication, I loved neighborhood walks. My favorite walk was north on Kennilworth to Chicago Ave., west on Chicago., and meander south on Forest Ave. and surrounding streets. The area northeast of Lake St./Oak Park Ave. was also fun to explore.
Oak Park Conservatory - A nice kid-friendly and/or crappy-weather activity. Or maybe if you just really like plants :) Bonus: if you're taking the Green Line into Oak Park, you'll also pass by the Garfield Park Conservatory, which is bigger than the OP one and often has cool sculpture/installation art on display.
Oak Park Festival Theatre in Austin Gardens - Outdoor community theater group that performs Shakespeare and some other classic plays each summer. Bring your lawn chair and enjoy the show! Tickets available through their website.
Summer Concert Series in Scoville Park - This free event features a different local band each Sunday evening throughout the summer. Located in the park next to the library. A casual, kid-friendly concert event.
PLACES TO SHOP
The Book Table - A great independent bookstore, perfect for browsing for a few hours. My only complaint is that there isn't anywhere to sit and read for a bit inside the store—mainly because there's no room for chairs! If you need more children's books, head to The Magic Tree Bookstore a few blocks away.
Gem - A shop full of unique jewelry designed mostly by independent artists. I'm not a jewelry person at all, but their shop is beautiful and stylish in its own right.
Careful Peach - A French-inspired interior and lifestyle shop. The perfect kind of shop to find hostess or wedding shower gifts.
Update Interiors - Fun and modern home decor accessories. Sort of an indie version of West Elm and Z Gallerie.
Muse - A clothing boutique featuring contemporary, stylish, and feminine designs from emerging designers and brands. I adore their store window displays—they usually look like a more modern version of Anthropologie.
BONUS: MADISON STREET IN NEIGHBORING FOREST PARK
Gaetano's - The best Italian food I've had in the US, and one of our most memorable dinners in the area. Go for the "Gaetapas" tasting menu for incredible variety: dishes like carpaccio salad, seared calamari steak, hand-formed ravioli, and more. Perfect for a special occasion. The interior and exterior definitely reminded me of Italy.
Shops - While I wasn't a frequent shopper, there are a wide variety of fun shops in this area. Todd & Holland for loose-leaf tea; Yearbook for home accessories with a masculine, collegiate vibe; Jayne for wearable women's fashion; Refind for sustainable interior decor; several antique stores; a knitting shop; a comic store; and a record store. It's a good spot to walk and shop!
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Independent Shopping in Oak Park | House Tour in Oak Park |
Frank Lloyd Wright Home & Studio | Downtown Oak Park
And lastly, just for fun, keep your eyes peeled for some well-known residents including Johnny Galecki, Tavi Gevinson, John Mahoney, and NPR's Peter Sagal. Tavi and Johnny live elsewhere now, but are often spotted visiting Oak Park.
A Weekly Meal Plan {01}
I'd like to share some of my weekly meal plans on occasion, perhaps once a month or so. Mostly because I love saving meal plans for future weeks when I get a little lazy, but I thought a few of you might be interested in seeing some meal plans put together. If nothing else, maybe you'll find a new recipe or two to try—and I'll always be sharing my meal plan after the fact, so the recipes will come to you tested and approved by yours truly ;)
Also, scroll to the end of this post for a few of my personal meal planning tips/notes.
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For this particular meal plan, we'd just come back from our trip home for Christmas. While I managed not to over-indulge during the holiday season (mostly because I was not in the presence of any Christmas cookies until we flew back home), I did eat out a few times in a row and was craving some good veggies and salads. And very thankfully, I have a husband who enjoys a big salad for dinner and doesn't object to eating several vegetarian meals per week.
Saturday: Power Green Salad, multi-grain baguette
This is an old favorite recipe (pictured above). It's full of crunchy veggies and diced apples with a honey mustard vinaigrette, so it holds up really well if you have leftovers (or if you're traveling with it). It calls for pepitas/pumpkin seeds but I've also used toasted cashews in the past. For the lentils, I use Trader Joe's pre-cooked steamed lentils, found in a vacuum-sealed pouch in the refrigerated section by the bagged salads. I knew I'd only use half the package for this recipe, so I made sure to pick another recipe that had lentils in it to make sure they wouldn't go to waste.
Sunday: Lentil Black Bean Soup with Smoked Paprika, leftover multi-grain baguette
This was a new recipe that I picked out so that I could use the rest of the lentils from the previous meal. Since the lentils were pre-cooked, I eliminated the extra water in the recipe. I also used canned tomatoes with green chiles (what I already had on hand), and I think that gave it a nice extra bit of flavor. We both thought this was a tasty recipe and filling from all those beans, but without being heavy.
Monday: Takeout pasta (Squid Ink Tonnarelli and Lamb Sausage Parpardelle) from Grassa
Mark was sick and wanted some comfort food, so he grabbed takeout on the way home.
Tuesday: Autumn Harvest Sprout Salad
Another new recipe that we thought was quite good and a filling meal in itself thanks to some hearty ingredients. My only recipe adjustments were to use applesauce instead of apple cider in the dressing (again, because that's what I had on hand) and to toast the chickpeas in a skillet until crispy since that's how I like my chickpeas in salads—it sort of makes them more like croutons. I used Trader Joe's pre-shredded Brussels sprouts for this. I still have 2/3 of the bag left, so that's something I'll keep in mind when planning for next week.
Wednesday: 45-Minute Coq au Vin
Wednesday: 45-Minute Coq au Vin
To balance out all the salads this week, I picked out this quick(er) version of Coq au Vin for a warm and cozy meal. I almost always have frozen chicken breasts in the freezer and most of the veggies required in this recipe, so I think I only had to buy mushrooms, potatoes, and red wine (Two Buck Chuck, holla!). I skipped the fancy mashed potatoes and just made regular ones. It was a delicious meal. Forty-five minutes is slightly longer than I'd normally spend on dinner, but Mark is working overtime this month and I had time to fuss. Since I only used two chicken breasts for the two of us, we ended up with a bunch of extra veggies and gravy leftover.
Thursday: Shepherd's Pie (with Coq au Vin leftovers)
Thursday: Shepherd's Pie (with Coq au Vin leftovers)
Instead of just eating the leftover gravy and potatoes from yesterday as-is, I had the brilliant idea to get some ground beef and turn it all into a Shepherd's Pie of sorts. Since this was a spontaneous meal, I ran to the store for ground beef, sauteed it, mixed in the veggies/gravy, and heated it until bubbly. I microwaved the leftover mashed potatoes until warm, and then spread the potatoes on top of the beef mix in an oven-proof dish. I topped it with a few thin slivers of butter and put it under the broiler until it started to brown. It was pretty darn good for a made-up meal!
Friday: Chicken Tamales with Jalapeño Salsa from Texas Tamale Company
This was a last-minute addition to the meal plan. We were gifted with a box of tamales as a belated Christmas present, and it came with a few different varieties of tamales and some chili, salsa, sausage, etc. We just ate the chicken tamales tonight, but the box will provide at least two or three more meals next week.
Saturday: Date night out at Ate-Oh-Ate Hawaiian Restaurant
Sunday: Chickpea Lime Salad
Another staple recipe that I make at least twice a month. It's really refreshing but still filling. Again, I like toasted chickpeas, so we always pan-fry them in a skillet with a seasoning spice blend until crisp and golden brown. I also use feta since I don't typically buy cotija cheese, and add toasted almonds or cashews (preferably the later, but both are good).
Monday: Dragon Noodles with Grilled Chicken
Yet another staple. It's so fast and crazy cheap per serving. I always just use linguini noodles because they're easier to find at TJ's, and I often add whatever stir fry-friendly vegetables I have on hand (carrot, peapods, red pepper), which I cook as a separate step and set aside in a bowl before cooking the egg. For variety in the sauce, we sometimes add a scoop of peanut butter, which makes it taste like—surprise!—peanut noodles. To add protein we add one chicken breast (or sometimes shrimp), grilled separately and added when mixing the noodles.
Tuesday: Middle Eastern Spiced Squash + Bean Stew
Friday: Chicken Tamales with Jalapeño Salsa from Texas Tamale Company
This was a last-minute addition to the meal plan. We were gifted with a box of tamales as a belated Christmas present, and it came with a few different varieties of tamales and some chili, salsa, sausage, etc. We just ate the chicken tamales tonight, but the box will provide at least two or three more meals next week.
Saturday: Date night out at Ate-Oh-Ate Hawaiian Restaurant
Sunday: Chickpea Lime Salad
Another staple recipe that I make at least twice a month. It's really refreshing but still filling. Again, I like toasted chickpeas, so we always pan-fry them in a skillet with a seasoning spice blend until crisp and golden brown. I also use feta since I don't typically buy cotija cheese, and add toasted almonds or cashews (preferably the later, but both are good).
Monday: Dragon Noodles with Grilled Chicken
Yet another staple. It's so fast and crazy cheap per serving. I always just use linguini noodles because they're easier to find at TJ's, and I often add whatever stir fry-friendly vegetables I have on hand (carrot, peapods, red pepper), which I cook as a separate step and set aside in a bowl before cooking the egg. For variety in the sauce, we sometimes add a scoop of peanut butter, which makes it taste like—surprise!—peanut noodles. To add protein we add one chicken breast (or sometimes shrimp), grilled separately and added when mixing the noodles.
Tuesday: Middle Eastern Spiced Squash + Bean Stew
Since I knew I'd have extra sweet potatoes this week, I planned to swap them for the butternut squash in this recipe. Swapping ingredients can sometimes lead to disappointment, but from prior experience I know that these two are fairly interchangeable and I actually prefer the taste/texture of diced sweet potatoes to butternut squash (but the opposite is true if it's a pureed soup). It was a tasty recipe with a nice fresh finish from the lemon zest and juice.
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A few notes:
• While I have noted the days above, I don't actually assign meals to specific days of the week (since we very rarely have weekday evening activities/events to account for). Instead we put our meal plan on a dry erase board in the kitchen and use it as a menu to pick from for the week. That way, we can still make what we're in the mood for on a given night (but obviously the choices are reduced as we progress through the week). We usually discuss it each morning so that I can take any prep steps ahead of time, like thawing frozen chicken.
• Lately I've been planning out seven meals at a time, but in practice that typically stretches to ten days since we sometimes have leftovers, take out, or go out for dinner. While grocery shopping, I often grab an extra pantry item that can be later turned into a "thrown-together" meal at the end of the weekly meal plan—especially if I happen to have to delay my next grocery shopping trip for some reason. For example, this week I grabbed a can of salmon, which I can either save or turn into salmon cakes over romaine for another dinner after we go through the whole meal plan.
• Generally speaking, I tend to grocery shop every week and a half, always at Trader Joe's. I actually love their limited selection and how it has forced me to use basic ingredients and produce in many different ways. TJ's has also been a big contributor to me reducing my meal planning and grocery shopping time—I can get in and out of the store in a half hour.
• For those who are curious, I spend about $120 every 10 days, with maybe an occasional extra stop during the week if needed. Mark walks past a grocery store on the way home from work and can fill in any gaps in our groceries (ex: a fresh baguette), re-stock on things we run out of (usually milk), or pick up items Trader Joe's doesn't have.
• Before planning for the next week, I always check and see what I need to use up. For the above meal plan, I know I'll have 2/3 bag of shredded Brussels sprouts, 1 romaine heart, and half a bag of kale. There are also two more frozen chicken breasts and half a package of bacon, plus the tamales we were randomly gifted with. Those will be my starting points for next week's meals. I'm super good about using up what we have and not wasting food. With the exception of cilantro and green onions, I almost never have to throw produce away because it sits and goes bad in the fridge.
Bookmarked, Vol. 1
One of my reading goals for the year is to limit my book-buying to four or five books for the year. There's nothing wrong with spending your money on books if it's something you love to do, but in my case, I've found that: 1) my book-buying outpaces my reading by a problematic rate, 2) I already own a lot of un-read books, and 3) I find I'm more satisfied when I spend money buying books that I have read previously and loved.In order to avoid temptation, I'm planning on using my library a great deal. I got my Portland library card last month, and I was thrilled to learn that their digital library collection is fantastic and far surpasses the one from the Oak Park library. They've had every e-book I've attempted to look for, even some obscure titles.
Anyone who is a heavy library user knows that the wait-list for new and popular books can be long. Because of this, I'm going to keep a running list of titles that spark my interest so that I can jump on the wait list or grab them if I happen to see them on the shelves in the library. Here is the first set of books currently on my radar.
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A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Bachman
This book is debut novel from a Swedish writer, and features the story of Ove, an old curmudgeon who's life is changed when some new neighbors move in next door and cause a disruption to his life and routines. I already have a soft spot for grumpy old men, but I've heard this story described as a heart-warming and humanizing story that packs a gut-punch, and I AM HERE FOR IT. | Goodreads
Villa America by Liza Klaussmann
Set in the roaring '20s on the French Riviera, this story follows lives of Gerald and Sara Murphy, the glamorous expats who were the real-life inspiration for F. Scott Fitzgerald's novel Tender is the Night. It features a supporting cast of characters including Picasso, Cole Porter, and Hemingway. While I should probably read Tender is the Night first—and no excuse, it's on my bookshelf already—I am often sucked into fictional stories about real life characters, especially set during the Jazz Age. | Goodreads
Hold Still by Lynn Steger Strong
This book was framed as "this year's Everything I Never Told You" and that's literally all I needed to know to add it to my list. (For context, Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng was my favorite book of 2015.) With a release date of March 2016, it promises psychologically wrought characters and well-crafted prose. I'm in! | Goodreads
Make Your Home Among Strangers by Jennine Capó Crucet
A young Cuban-American woman secretly applies and is accepted into an elite university far from home, much to the anger of her immigrant parents. The coming-of-age novel focuses on her struggle to adapt culturally and academically as a first-generation college student at a predominantly white school. This one is right in my wheelhouse: Bildungsroman, campus novel, diverse characters. | Goodreads
Life From Scratch by Sasha Martin
This memoir from a food blogger focuses on how she cooked her way to happiness and self-acceptance, using cooking as a way to process her painful past. It seems to focus on the story behind the food, which is a perspective I always enjoy. | Goodreads
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I'd love to know, what's #1 on your reading list for the year? Have you read any of the books I mentioned here?
January Goals.
If you're an OG blog reader, you might remember that for a long time I used to set monthly intentions. At some point I got distracted by other goal-setting and tracking methods, and fell out of favor with this monthly reflection habit. (I've obviously also fallen off the blogging wagon on multiple occasions, which I'm sure hasn't helped the matter at all.)
However, since becoming co-dependent with my Inkwell Press planner last year, I'm back on a monthly planning schedule. The month-at-a-glance calendar is perfect for giving me a "real life" overview of the month, but what I really love are the mission boards. Filling it out has become a simple way for me to consider my goals and intentions for the month ahead. I love how Inkwell inspires you to not only keep your to-do's organized, but also think about the other pieces of life that make up the whole of you, including personal time, your health, and even big dreams. I really do think that it's the first planner that has worked for me because it is all-encompassing.
But this post is not meant to be a[nother] rave about Inkwell Press. As an extension of my planning process, I want to bring back my monthly goal/intention posts to the blog. I wouldn't say I'm going hardcore on any big goals this year, so it's not about breaking big goals into 12 pieces, but rather experimenting with some smaller tasks and habits as a way of bringing me closer to my values and the way I want to feel throughout the year. As a general guide, I'm dividing my goals/intentions into the categories of body, mind, and spirit, as well as including a monthly musing on how I might want to engage with my One Little Word (Light). I plan on checking back in at the end of each month.
JANUARY GOALS
BODY | Use a standing desk when editing videos and doing administrative work.
I have some back and hip pain that is often exacerbated by prolonged sitting. And I know sitting is killing us anyways. I've tried to transition to a standing desk in the past, but when it comes to doing my writing, I've found that it's almost impossible for me to write while standing. It's like my brain doesn't work that way. However, I have discovered that standing while doing certain mindless or tedious computer tasks is no problem, so that is where I want to start. Even if I can't make a standing desk work while writing, at least I won't be sitting down all the time.
MIND | Complete two writing sessions using creative writing prompts.
Creative writing is still something that is extremely challenging for me. I mean, I was trained as a journalist, so to write more from the heart and imagination is quite the 180º. I think my ability to write more freely is in there somewhere, but it's currently stuck under a bunch of rules and self-judgements. So, in an effort to loosen up, I want to start with two creative writing exercises this month. It's not much, but I really need to start small here.
SOUL | Start my morning by reading for 1/2-1 hour instead of picking up my phone or computer.
Pretty self-explanatory. I think a peaceful start to the morning spent doing something I care about would set my day off on the right foot and hopefully that good energy would continue throughout the day. I have enough screen-time that I don't need to start as soon as my eyes open. And I've found that—even in the evening—my reading is too often displaced by mindless scrolling (Instagram, I just can't quit you). I'd much rather a book be my default than my phone.
LIGHT | Clear my laptop of excess files and clutter.
Between photo and videos for my YouTube channel and the fact that I very stupidly fried my external hard drive by accident, my computer is running low on space. And I know there are so many things I could delete, like all the photos where I've taken 100 different versions and saved them all. I'll eventually get another hard drive when I stop being cheap, but I still don't need to save *everything.* Let it gooooo. It'll be tedious, but I really need to go through my files.
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{Blog photo: Image via Death To The Stock Photo, text via Cocorrina's 2015 Calendar}
2016, Visualized.
While I've already picked my guiding word for the year and thought about how I can use it to support my values and desired feelings, I am a visual creature at heart and enjoy seeing my goals and values displayed in a collage like this. I find it motivating and influential in a way that words alone are not, and have more than a handful of examples of times when things I've put on my vision board have been manifested and achieved—like the time I was contacted to contribute to a magazine only ONE DAY after putting an image of the same magazine on my vision board! A crazy coincidence or powerful voodoo, I do not know, but it's enough to make me faithfully committed to my yearly vision board.
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In 2016:
Prioritize family life.
Find our next home.
Read books that move me.
Explore new horizons.
Cultivate a quiet, healing home environment.
Find what feels good.
Write write write write write.
Adopt a feline family member.
Decorate our home in a creative, natural, simple style.
Spend time in nature.
Find my go-to hairstyle.
Find my go-to skincare and makeup.
Center myself and lighten my spirit.
Nourish my body with light, wholesome foods.
Be a light to the world.
Connect with and cultivate a community of women friends.
Create more than I consume.
Read some more.
Make things: art, videos, novels, photographs.
Marvel at the moon.
Practice being a beginner. The more I do it the better I'll get.
Channel Anna's free-spirited quirky charm.
Move more freely in life.
{My 2015 vision board.}
One Little Word 2015 : LIGHT.
I hereby declare 2016 the year of "Light."
Less worry, more joy. Less screens, more adventures. Less consuming, more creating. Less comparison, more compassion. Less brain, more heart.
Loving harder, laughing louder, living lighter.
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The meaning of "light" spans everything from illumination to content/weight to fun and ease. It's a noun, an adjective, a verb. I love that "light" can be interpreted in different ways, and adapted to various areas of my life.
Light in my eating habits means choosing food intuitively that will make me feel my best, rather than indulging in whatever sounds good and tempting but ultimately makes me feel like hot garbage.
Light in my social life brings to mind the meaning behind the word namaste, which translates to "the divine light in me honors the divine light in you." As I want to focus on finding a community of friends in Portland, this mantra will hopefully help me transcend a bit of social anxiety by recognizing that we're all worthy of being loved and known by others.
Light extended into my creative work might mean taking it a bit less seriously and sacredly, which could allow for a more fluid and playful relationship with my creativity, focusing on the process not the outcome.
Light in my life means focusing on experiences and adventure of "stuff," and letting go of what doesn't contribute something of value. It also means being kinder to the environment and leaving less footprints behind.
And, most importantly, I want to focus on Light in my relationship to myself. To release the negative self-talk and comparison, to cultivate an inherent sense of joy and enthusiasm (something that doesn't exactly come naturally). To respect my own light, and let it radiate outward.
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I am a big fan of Yoga with Adriene on YouTube, and one of her repeated encouragements is, "Find what feels good." It's become a life mantra of sorts and I've been more considerate of how I want to feel. So, along with picking a One Little Word for 2016, I also spent some time thinking about my Core Desired Feelings a la Danielle LaPorte. My CDF's have always circled around similar themes, though the exact words sometimes change. Recently, I have clarified my CDF's as Connected, Mindful, Curious, Light-hearted, and Expressive. If those five words represent the way I want to feel, I think of Light as the meditation to set me on the right path towards those feelings.
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The day after picking my One Little Word, I opened up a bag of Yogi Tea to find the following quote on the teabag, and I think it's a good omen. Happy 2016, friends.
Travel light. Live light. Spread the light. Be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
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{Header image via: BlogHer}
2015 in Review.
Happy New Year's Eve! Since I have exciting plans to stay in my pajamas all day today, I wanted to take a little time to reflect on the past several months. I'm using the same Q&A format as last year since I liked how it inspired me to look at a various areas of my life. It's been a big year in my world—it's crazy to me that we started the year having no idea that we'd end the year in an entirely different place. I mean, change and progress is almost always good, but in retrospect it seems to have happened so suddenly and surprisingly.
1. What did you do in 2015 that you’d never done before?
○ The biggest thing is that we moved out of Illinois and became residents of Oregon. Even though I went to college in Missouri, I've never been a resident of any other state but Illinois until now. We've never relocated for a job before this year either (aside from Ireland, but that was a temporary assignment).
1. What did you do in 2015 that you’d never done before?
○ The biggest thing is that we moved out of Illinois and became residents of Oregon. Even though I went to college in Missouri, I've never been a resident of any other state but Illinois until now. We've never relocated for a job before this year either (aside from Ireland, but that was a temporary assignment).
○ We sold our condo, and it was our first times selling real estate. It was a stressful process, to say the least.
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
7. What dates from 2015 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
○ Mid-May: Mark got a job offer in Portland, OR
9. What was your biggest failure?
For once, I don't feel like I outright failed at anything. I'm granting myself a certain amount of grace in realizing that it's been a big year of change for us, and that life will be a bit unsettled for a while. Of course there are things I wish I'd done more of, like reading and exercising and making friends and putting out more videos and writing more, but we had more balls to juggle this year—and I don't feel like I flat-out dropped any of them.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Only the same ongoing issues as the past few years: sciatica through my left hip/leg, some pain in my left knee, and a constant knot in (you guessed it) my left shoulder. Aside from that, I had a 2.5 week-long cold/flu in the spring, and Mark and I both had AWFUL food poisoning from some tainted Thai fish sauce that just about killed us.
11. What was the best thing you bought?
Footwear, haha! I got a pair of ankle-support hiking boots for all of our outdoor excursion in the Pacific Northwest, and I also got a pair of duck boots that have already proven to be quite practical for Portland's rainy fall and winter. Aside from that, we also rented a parking space in the garage under our apartment once our condo sold, and I LOVE IT. I've never had to pay for parking before so it seems like an absurd cost to pay monthly, but it is SO convenient to have a reserved space in a garage rather than fighting for limited street parking as we did for our first few months here. And it's the first time our Prius Dory has been able to be parked inside, and it finally feels like we're giving her the good life she deserves ;)
12. Where did most of your money go?
To the "selling" of our condo, to be honest. We paid the bank a few thousand dollars in order to sell (explained in this blog post) but we were more relieved to have the sale go through than upset about the money spent, and we had plenty of savings to cover it. According to the bank, there's a chance some of that money will come back to us for some reason I don't quite understand, so my fingers are crossed for that. We also spent a lot on the actual move, but we had a generous moving allowance from Mark's new company and they reimbursed us for almost all of it.
13. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
When Mark got we got the news that we were moving to Portland. At first I was mostly incredulous. But then I cried because I couldn't believe that it was actually happening, and then I cried about having to leave, and then when we arrived in Portland, and then when we sold our condo... It was an emotional few months.
14. What songs will always remind you of 2015?
15. Did you make any new friendships?
16. Did you go on vacation?
17. What do you wish you had done more and less of?
○ More: Reading, exercising, friend-making, video-making, and writing, as I've already mentioned. Also, more compassion, vulnerability, and expressions of love for the people I care about.
○ Less: Worrying, multi-tasking, wasting time online. Also, less comparing, judging, and negative self-talk.
18. How did you spend the holidays?
We headed to Illinois/Wisconsin for the holidays for six days, and had lots of family and friends to squeeze into that time. We just got home, and I'm probably going to need a solid week of Introvert Time to recover! As for Thanksgiving, this was our first Thanksgiving alone with just Mark and myself, and since we don't love traditional food, we decided to tackle a challenging recipe: homemade pork tamales with mole sauce. It was fun, but I admit it felt really quiet, and I had a bit of FOMO knowing our various families were gathering together without us there. Next year we're planning on traveling to Arizona to spend Thanksgiving with Mark's older sister and our two nephews, since we almost NEVER see the Southwest side of his family.
19. What new food did you discover?
I don't think there were any entirely new discoveries, but we did start and maintain a Sunday Dutch baby pancake tradition. We probably only missed a few weeks out of the entire year, and over time we've experimented with several varieties, such as lemon-blueberry, baked cinnamon apple, gingerbread spice, and even Mexican chocolate (not my fave). This is the base recipe we use, except we just hand mix it instead of putting it in the blender.
24. What was your favorite film of this year?
Mark forced me to watch Whiplash, and I ended up loving it. I expected it to be far too intense for my anxiety-prone nature, but the story was great. I only saw a few movies released in 2015, and my favorites were probably Inside Out and The Martian.
25. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
26. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2015?
27. What kept you sane?
My planner, lolz. But seriously. I've never had much success with planners in the past, but my Inkwell Press Planner was my BFF this year, particularly when I was planning the move, downsizing/selling our stuff, preparing to sell the condo, saying goodbyes, and making the road-trip out West. I would not have been able to do it without my planner; I lived by that thing this year.
28. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
This question made me realize that I have not payed any attention to celebrities this year... like, I still haven't even heard "Hotline Bling," and what's the big deal about Drake anyways? Pretty much all of my entertainment comes from books, podcasts, or YouTube nowadays. So if I use those as my selection pool, my favorite people are Ann and Aminatou from Call Your Girlfriend, and the brilliant and articulate YouTuber Rosianna Halse Rojas.
29. What political issue stirred you the most?
So much is weighing on me. It been a heavy year, hasn't it? Especially lately. The epidemic of mass shootings and politicians complete inability to take preventative action because of the NRA is disappointing and troubling. I hadn't realized that even the CDC was banned from researching gun deaths as a public health issue due to legislation pushed through by NRA-backed Republicans. Chicago currently has the nation's attention as investigations are launched into the shooting of yet another black man by police, and why the police department tried to cover up the shooting. Even my dear alma mater Mizzou was at the center of the news for a while, and I was torn between feeling proud for the college students and athletes fighting injustice, and feeling saddened by the dismissive way the protests were being covered in the media. I also wrestled with my former oblivion to racial tension on campus that came from my own privilege, having had an entirely different college experience than students of color. And then there were the terrorist attacks in Paris and Beirut, and in Southern California. As tragic as these attacks are, I am embarrassed and heart-broken by how many people are reactionary and close-minded towards the refugee crisis, and the pure Islamophobia that mainstream front-running candidates (UGH) are incorporating into their actual political platforms. What kind of history are we writing here?
I know I'm bringing up a bunch of issues upon which opinions often vary and tensions often rise, but I can basically sum up my own thoughts by saying I refuse to let fear be a motivating factor in my life. Fear of others is the locus of so much of the world's pain, and we'd be so much better off if we open our eyes, hearts, ears, hands to one another. "Frankly, there isn't anyone you couldn't love, once you've heard their story." - Mary Lou Kownacki
30. Who did you miss?
My family, now that we're 2,000+ miles apart. I didn't see them all that frequently when we lived nearby, so homesickness really hasn't been an issue for me, but Thanksgiving was a bit lonely and I'm very glad we got to visit over Christmas. I also went through a period of mourning how easily friends fade into acquaintances fade into strangers. It's hard to let go of the idea of these people and their friendship when you're a naturally nostalgic person, but it is a necessary process in order to move onward, especially since I want to focus on making new, local friends in Portland.
33. Share a quote or song lyric that sums up your year.
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
As with the past several years, I picked guiding words for the year, and 2015 was "awake, rooted, unapologetic." I think they were good words, but the results and influences of them on my life are probably fairly subtle at this point in time. Especially lately, I feel more in tune with needs and desires, even if I still recognize the areas I need to work on. I would say the awareness inspired by words like "awake" and "rooted" helped guide me this year, but I could still work on being more comfortable (="unapologetic") about being myself. There's an internal level of self-acceptance that falls a little bit short when it comes to projecting myself outward in social settings (thanks, social anxiety). As for next year, I'll be picking a new word for 2016 and I'll post about it soon.
6. What would you like to have in 2016 that you lacked in 2015?
The first thing that comes to mind is enthusiasm. I'm not a naturally expressive person in an outward sense (at least on the happy end of the spectrum - ha!), and I've noticed that I don't often give myself the chance to feel excited about the things I'm doing nor proud of the things I've done. It relates a bit to the people-pleasing I brought up in the previous question—I can get far too caught up in how me or my work is being perceived by others, or I get overly concerned with others' comfort and wellbeing, both of which take me out of my own experience. And that is such a draining way to live, and I can see how harmful it is to the process of creativity. This has been a lightbulb type of revelation from the past year, and enthusiasm is something that I honestly look forward to creating a better relationship with. I want to embrace that John Green/Nerdfighter mentality: "Nerds like us are allowed to be unironically enthusiastic about stuff. Nerds are allowed to love stuff, like jump-up-and-down-in-the-chair-can't-control-yourself love it. When people call people nerds, mostly what they're saying is 'you like stuff.' Which is just not a good insult at all. Like, 'you are too enthusiastic about the miracle of human consciousness.'"
7. What dates from 2015 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
○ Mid-May: Mark got a job offer in Portland, OR
○ All of June: Packing, cleaning, dealing with our realtor, saying goodbye to friends
○ July 2: We left our condo for the last time and began our journey West, starting with a stop to see family in Wisconsin
○ July 6: Our official cross-country road trip began
○ July 10: We arrived at our new home in Portland
○ October 11: We flew back to the Midwest because Mark's sister got married!
○ October 29: Our condo sold!!
○ December holidays: We flew back to Illinois for a whirlwind 6 days of visiting family and celebrating 4 separate Christmases
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
○ October 29: Our condo sold!!
○ December holidays: We flew back to Illinois for a whirlwind 6 days of visiting family and celebrating 4 separate Christmases
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Moving, and everything it entailed. I'm proud of Mark for seeking a better job situation and that it just happened to be in a place we've dreamed of moving for close to ten years. I'm proud of myself for managing the minimizing/downsizing and doing pretty much all the packing. I'm grateful that moved with hardly an issue along the way—not even one single broken item (eta: correction, we had two broken ornaments when we went to put out Christmas decor recently. I think I can live with that!). I was hella thrilled when our condo officially sold after a few months on the market (no more rent + mortgage!). And I'm happy with our new environment, and the ways in which it is a growth opportunity for us both.
9. What was your biggest failure?
For once, I don't feel like I outright failed at anything. I'm granting myself a certain amount of grace in realizing that it's been a big year of change for us, and that life will be a bit unsettled for a while. Of course there are things I wish I'd done more of, like reading and exercising and making friends and putting out more videos and writing more, but we had more balls to juggle this year—and I don't feel like I flat-out dropped any of them.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Only the same ongoing issues as the past few years: sciatica through my left hip/leg, some pain in my left knee, and a constant knot in (you guessed it) my left shoulder. Aside from that, I had a 2.5 week-long cold/flu in the spring, and Mark and I both had AWFUL food poisoning from some tainted Thai fish sauce that just about killed us.
11. What was the best thing you bought?
Footwear, haha! I got a pair of ankle-support hiking boots for all of our outdoor excursion in the Pacific Northwest, and I also got a pair of duck boots that have already proven to be quite practical for Portland's rainy fall and winter. Aside from that, we also rented a parking space in the garage under our apartment once our condo sold, and I LOVE IT. I've never had to pay for parking before so it seems like an absurd cost to pay monthly, but it is SO convenient to have a reserved space in a garage rather than fighting for limited street parking as we did for our first few months here. And it's the first time our Prius Dory has been able to be parked inside, and it finally feels like we're giving her the good life she deserves ;)
12. Where did most of your money go?
To the "selling" of our condo, to be honest. We paid the bank a few thousand dollars in order to sell (explained in this blog post) but we were more relieved to have the sale go through than upset about the money spent, and we had plenty of savings to cover it. According to the bank, there's a chance some of that money will come back to us for some reason I don't quite understand, so my fingers are crossed for that. We also spent a lot on the actual move, but we had a generous moving allowance from Mark's new company and they reimbursed us for almost all of it.
13. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
When Mark got we got the news that we were moving to Portland. At first I was mostly incredulous. But then I cried because I couldn't believe that it was actually happening, and then I cried about having to leave, and then when we arrived in Portland, and then when we sold our condo... It was an emotional few months.
14. What songs will always remind you of 2015?
Since I've clearly established "moving" as a major theme for 2015, this remix of Home by Edward Sharpe will forever make me think of everything that's happened this year, and I even included it in our moving vlog. I've also listened to Adele's 25 enough that it'll probably always remind me of this year.
15. Did you make any new friendships?
Not locally, unfortunately. The first few months here have really been about getting settled, and while I have attended some Meetup.com groups, no one I'd really consider a friend has emerged yet. Womp, womp. Making friends as an adult is freakin' hard! But I did have the chance to get together with Jenni King, a booktube friend of mine, while she was in town on her honeymoon, and that was fantastic. But she sadly does not live nearby. I also reconnected with a college acquaintance right before I left Illinois, which was the worst case of bad timing because we lived in the same town for so long without getting together, and we probably could have been good friends.
16. Did you go on vacation?
If you count a cross-country move/road trip, then yes. We did stop at the lake house in northern Wisconsin and Yellowstone along the way, which was beautiful. We also went back to Chicago and drove to Michigan for Mark's sister's wedding this fall. Both of those felt like mini-vacations. And honestly, Oregon is so new to us and has so much to do that many of our weekends feel like vacations too.
17. What do you wish you had done more and less of?
○ More: Reading, exercising, friend-making, video-making, and writing, as I've already mentioned. Also, more compassion, vulnerability, and expressions of love for the people I care about.
○ Less: Worrying, multi-tasking, wasting time online. Also, less comparing, judging, and negative self-talk.
18. How did you spend the holidays?
We headed to Illinois/Wisconsin for the holidays for six days, and had lots of family and friends to squeeze into that time. We just got home, and I'm probably going to need a solid week of Introvert Time to recover! As for Thanksgiving, this was our first Thanksgiving alone with just Mark and myself, and since we don't love traditional food, we decided to tackle a challenging recipe: homemade pork tamales with mole sauce. It was fun, but I admit it felt really quiet, and I had a bit of FOMO knowing our various families were gathering together without us there. Next year we're planning on traveling to Arizona to spend Thanksgiving with Mark's older sister and our two nephews, since we almost NEVER see the Southwest side of his family.
19. What new food did you discover?
I don't think there were any entirely new discoveries, but we did start and maintain a Sunday Dutch baby pancake tradition. We probably only missed a few weeks out of the entire year, and over time we've experimented with several varieties, such as lemon-blueberry, baked cinnamon apple, gingerbread spice, and even Mexican chocolate (not my fave). This is the base recipe we use, except we just hand mix it instead of putting it in the blender.
In Portland, we've loved exploring tons of new restaurants and food carts and coffeeshops. My favorite meal so far in Portland is a tie between a 9-course tapas tasting menu at Toro Bravo for our anniversary and a super simple yet delicious chicken and rice dish from the Thai food cart Nong's Khao Man Gai.
And as for home cooked meals, we still made a variation of this salad almost weekly (but we go with grilled chicken, grapes, feta, pearl couscous, onion, and almonds with a homemade balsamic vinagrette), and one of my favorite new recipe was this pumpkin coconut curry.
20. What was your favorite TV program?
We ditched cable for good when we moved, so I've given up almost entirely on TV shows. We did buy a cheap digital antenna for broadcast TV, and so far the only thing we're watching regularly is Jeopardy! and I love it. I used to make fun of my parents for saying they did crossword puzzles to exercise their brains, but that's exactly what Jeopardy feels like now. I'm ok with being a big fat nerd—though I'm really only good at pop culture, books, and cooking/food-related categories :)
21. What was one of your favorite experiences of the year?
22. What was the best book you read?
23. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Spotify Discover—does that count? I'd say it has about a 70% accuracy rate for me. Other than that, new-to-me bands for this year include Father John Misty, Mighty Oaks, Ryn Weaver, Grimes, Zella Day, and Elle King.
And as for home cooked meals, we still made a variation of this salad almost weekly (but we go with grilled chicken, grapes, feta, pearl couscous, onion, and almonds with a homemade balsamic vinagrette), and one of my favorite new recipe was this pumpkin coconut curry.
20. What was your favorite TV program?
We ditched cable for good when we moved, so I've given up almost entirely on TV shows. We did buy a cheap digital antenna for broadcast TV, and so far the only thing we're watching regularly is Jeopardy! and I love it. I used to make fun of my parents for saying they did crossword puzzles to exercise their brains, but that's exactly what Jeopardy feels like now. I'm ok with being a big fat nerd—though I'm really only good at pop culture, books, and cooking/food-related categories :)
21. What was one of your favorite experiences of the year?
In general, it's been great to explore a new city, especially one with great outdoor opportunities and great food. We haven't even started branching out beyond the Portland and Mt. Hood areas—we have Crater Lake, Bend, Seattle, and the Oregon coast on our must-do list for next year.
What did you want and get?
Mark got a new job that moved us to Portland, have I mentioned that? :) After thinking about moving west for so long, it feels like a dream coming true. We've been very lucky in our life that most of the things we set out to achieve, we have. Some other things I had on my vision board included spending time outdoors, journaling, embracing solitude, visiting the lake house, take adventures, minimize my belongings and life, read good books, stand up for what I believe in, make things—and I achieved all of those in part, if not in full. *Fist bump.*
What did you want and not get?
Based on my vision board, we didn't get to Utah's national parks, get a cat, nor grow our family. Some of these will be re-appearing on my 2016 vision board.
22. What was the best book you read?
I hate that I read Everything I Never Told You and A Little Life in the same year, because they're both amazing and sad and heart-breaking. I'm actually not going to tell you which one is my favorite because I'm going to film a specific video about my favorite books of the year. Just building the suspense :)
23. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Spotify Discover—does that count? I'd say it has about a 70% accuracy rate for me. Other than that, new-to-me bands for this year include Father John Misty, Mighty Oaks, Ryn Weaver, Grimes, Zella Day, and Elle King.
24. What was your favorite film of this year?
Mark forced me to watch Whiplash, and I ended up loving it. I expected it to be far too intense for my anxiety-prone nature, but the story was great. I only saw a few movies released in 2015, and my favorites were probably Inside Out and The Martian.
25. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I turned 32 in January, and for my birthday we made my favorite recipe that came from Mark's family, creamy chicken enchiladas, and the following weekend we went out to dinner at an Italian restaurant with my mom and stepdad. Nothing too exciting, but I'm finding that I'm still having trouble celebrating my birthday after losing my grandfather on the same day a few years ago.
26. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2015?
Haha, this question makes me laugh now, given that I've abandoned capsule wardrobes and everything they stand for. Fashion is pretty low on my priority list. My aesthetic is "lazy fitness": I wear jeans/leggings, black Nikes and a fleece/hoodie any time it's socially acceptable. Portland style seems to be categorized by either typical hipster attire or comfortable outdoor apparel, and I certainly lean towards the later. But when I do "dress up," I still wear the kinds of things I had in my capsule wardrobes (black/grey/neutrals, stripes, tunics, cardigans, knits, etc).
27. What kept you sane?
My planner, lolz. But seriously. I've never had much success with planners in the past, but my Inkwell Press Planner was my BFF this year, particularly when I was planning the move, downsizing/selling our stuff, preparing to sell the condo, saying goodbyes, and making the road-trip out West. I would not have been able to do it without my planner; I lived by that thing this year.
28. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
This question made me realize that I have not payed any attention to celebrities this year... like, I still haven't even heard "Hotline Bling," and what's the big deal about Drake anyways? Pretty much all of my entertainment comes from books, podcasts, or YouTube nowadays. So if I use those as my selection pool, my favorite people are Ann and Aminatou from Call Your Girlfriend, and the brilliant and articulate YouTuber Rosianna Halse Rojas.
29. What political issue stirred you the most?
So much is weighing on me. It been a heavy year, hasn't it? Especially lately. The epidemic of mass shootings and politicians complete inability to take preventative action because of the NRA is disappointing and troubling. I hadn't realized that even the CDC was banned from researching gun deaths as a public health issue due to legislation pushed through by NRA-backed Republicans. Chicago currently has the nation's attention as investigations are launched into the shooting of yet another black man by police, and why the police department tried to cover up the shooting. Even my dear alma mater Mizzou was at the center of the news for a while, and I was torn between feeling proud for the college students and athletes fighting injustice, and feeling saddened by the dismissive way the protests were being covered in the media. I also wrestled with my former oblivion to racial tension on campus that came from my own privilege, having had an entirely different college experience than students of color. And then there were the terrorist attacks in Paris and Beirut, and in Southern California. As tragic as these attacks are, I am embarrassed and heart-broken by how many people are reactionary and close-minded towards the refugee crisis, and the pure Islamophobia that mainstream front-running candidates (UGH) are incorporating into their actual political platforms. What kind of history are we writing here?
I know I'm bringing up a bunch of issues upon which opinions often vary and tensions often rise, but I can basically sum up my own thoughts by saying I refuse to let fear be a motivating factor in my life. Fear of others is the locus of so much of the world's pain, and we'd be so much better off if we open our eyes, hearts, ears, hands to one another. "Frankly, there isn't anyone you couldn't love, once you've heard their story." - Mary Lou Kownacki
30. Who did you miss?
My family, now that we're 2,000+ miles apart. I didn't see them all that frequently when we lived nearby, so homesickness really hasn't been an issue for me, but Thanksgiving was a bit lonely and I'm very glad we got to visit over Christmas. I also went through a period of mourning how easily friends fade into acquaintances fade into strangers. It's hard to let go of the idea of these people and their friendship when you're a naturally nostalgic person, but it is a necessary process in order to move onward, especially since I want to focus on making new, local friends in Portland.
32. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2015.
○ Let that shit go. Physically and emotionally. We hold onto so much more than we need to.
○ Self-care takes work and effort. Sometimes it’s okay to do what’s easy and comfortable in the name of self-care, but usually the best-for-you choices require more intention and responsibility towards yourself.
○ Create more than you consume. When you're feeling stuck and restless, the solution is almost always to make something. Make art, movement, connection, or even just a meal for yourself.
○ Focus on the process, not the outcome.
○ Create more than you consume. When you're feeling stuck and restless, the solution is almost always to make something. Make art, movement, connection, or even just a meal for yourself.
○ Focus on the process, not the outcome.
I read the book When Women Were Birds by Terry Tempest Williams over the summer, and it explored the idea of women's voices and what it means to use your voice as a woman. There were so many quotes and passages that spoke to me, but one that I keep thinking about since reading the book is a simple line that comes at the end of a story about Terry fighting for environmental conservation on behalf of a wilderness society. After returning from a draining trip to Washington, D.C., she writes, "For me, what is real was the sweet smell of sage after rain in the desert, not lunch with a senator." The quote itself isn't immediately powerful, but it resonated with me as someone who struggles with what success means. It hit me I often worry about external markers instead of looking within. My idea of what's real, of what a sweet life looks like, IS equally as simple as the smell of sage after the rain. Now it's just a matter of remembering that and being at peace with this simpler and truer version of life.
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And now, onto a new year. Cheers to 2016.
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